Hi Guys,

Lately, one of my biggest issues seems that I've become quite apathetic when I go out. I've had a long string of bad nights for the past month and don't really know what to do about it.

I go out 4-5 nights a week, but I feel so bored and ill-tempered when I'm in the club. I don't have much approach anxiety anymore, but now I feel I only approach out of self-discipline or that nagging feeling that I should be approaching. This has been very frustrating and it kind of stresses me out, leading to bad nights.

I've had some great successes in the past year and I regularly date and sleep with attractive women, but it seems like I've been on a downhill slide lately. I’m 23, so maybe I’m starting to mature a little bit and clubs and party girls don’t seem so exciting anymore. I don’t feel happy or sad, just indifference.

I can compare cold-approaching in clubs to going to the gym. I don't really feel like going, but I still go because I want the results and I have good self-discipline.

I don't really want to take a break from cold approaching, but I’m trying to meet women through other ways such as building a better social circle, taking classes, volunteering and generally living a better life.

BTW. I'm quite happy in all other areas of my life and I don't think I'm depressed.

Has anyone else experienced this phenomenon where they just feel really lethargic when they're out? What did you do about it?

take a short break, see how you feel. Think of it as a recovery week.