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Cold calling an actress
Hi everyone. This is my first post. I just found this site last month and am already a big fan. But that's not what this post is about. I need help. And if nothing else, I bet you'll find my situation interesting.

One thing before I begin... I KNOW THAT THIS IS AN INCREDIBLY RIDICULOUS SUPER LONG SHOT.

Through a random sequence of events that I won't bore you with, I've become casual friends with a woman who had a recurring role on a popular tv show. She's not a viable option for me (several years older w/ kids), but she's really cool. So one day last week, I randomly tell her that she should get me the phone number of one of the actresses on her old tv show (call her "Emily"). She mentioned how much she loved Emily when they worked together and how proud she is to see Emily's career doing well.

Most of you would recognize Emily if I posted a picture or her real name. She's not A-list, but she's well known. So anyway, my friend said "I'll definitely see what I can do." This surprised me. She explained that she didn't have Emily's current number but that she'd get it. She also said that she did have the current number of another actress on the show (call her "Erica"). Erica, like Emily, is hot, and you'd probably recognize her (though she's not A-list either).

So, my friend and I are supposed to have dinner this weekend, and she's promised to pass along the numbers. So my question to you is obvious: How can I best capitalize on this random situation? It looks like I'd pretty much be calling Emily and/or Erica out of the blue. I think I've heard of celebrities doing this (or having their "people" do it), but a celebrity I am not. I'm a lawyer in Addison, Texas in his early 30s.

I think my friend is impressed w/ me from the time we've spent together (mostly at parties). She seems dead serious about all of this. What she hasn't specifically mentioned was calling ahead to put in a good word for me (which I'd guess I can talk her into).

Again, I KNOW THIS IS A STUPID CRAZY LONG SHOT. You needn't remind me. But you have to take your shots where you find them, right? So if get the numbers, I'm defintiely doing SOMETHING.

What should that something be? All help is welcome. Thanks in advance.
10-07-2011 07:48 AM
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RE: Cold calling an actress
Two options

1) get your friend to invite her friend out to some sort of group thing

2) Get your friend to pitch you to "Emily" as a potential guy to set her up with. "hey there's this guy who is a fan of yours but he's cool, can he call you" sounds terrible. "hey, I have this friend who I think would be a good match for you. Wanna meet him?" is perfectly normal.
10-07-2011 08:04 AM
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RE: Cold calling an actress
Well I have a weirdest situation with a "celebrity",and now I can tell you is possible.
What I did before I blew it up(by doing nothing while she was 150% percent on me,) its just acted like I 'm with a normal person(it came out naturally,I was not intimidated or fall by her "fame",and she caught instantly on this dont know how),but first of all everything you do must be normal.That's all I can tell you,and from there ,I think the most determinant factor will be, how well you match each other,and all these usual things that matter in every interaction.
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10-15-2011 12:22 AM
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RE: Cold calling an actress
(10-15-2011 12:22 AM)Symor Wrote:  Well I have a weirdest situation with a "celebrity",and now I can tell you is possible.
What I did before I blew it up(by doing nothing while she was 150% percent on me,) its just acted like I 'm with a normal person(it came out naturally,I was not intimidated or fall by her "fame",and she caught instantly on this dont know how),but first of all everything you do must be normal.That's all I can tell you,and from there ,I think the most determinant factor will be, how well you match each other,and all these usual things that matter in every interaction.

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10-15-2011 04:19 AM
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RE: Cold calling an actress
Well,Mark having this experience and comparing with what you say,now its more clear in my mind,the difference between these two mindsets"I have to throw out routines" and "Be natural".
I was usually intimidated by beauty,and I valued it a lot,so it was rare for me to be so natural in front of a very beautiful woman.So I'ld always play some kind of game in my mind having the anxiety in the back of my head.
In this situation the girl for me was not so hot ,and she was in the music"industry" let's say.Being a musician with a band,I am not intimidated by famous persons,in the music industry,I see them now more as people that are doing what I m doing.And also ,having your minds on earth,you can feel that this person ,have seen and can expect many things,more weird that you can imagine, so you can be indifferent to the outcome,and let yourself more free.

I explain this not to overanalyse,but if this mindset applied(and it can be)at the very attractive girls,it could have similar effect.And maybe that's the reason that some PU books,write that they find many times more easy,to get a very attractive woman,than the less attractive one.

Secondly I want to point out to people that will read this thread ,about the celebrity thing ,if one good situation start happens to you and you blow it out,try to forget about it,from the beginning and laugh and not let it become an obsession,because its very easy to fall there,realising the validation or the rarity of what slipped from your hands.Speaking from experience of courseSmile
(This post was last modified: 10-16-2011 06:09 AM by Symor.)
10-16-2011 06:06 AM
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