Hey guys,
Just came back from a vacay in Croatia. Let me tell you there are a lot of very hot women there! Anyway met a very cute girl that I hit it off with effortlessly. We had a blast for 2 days, similar to what Mark wrote about in the post about the emotional-cycle (?). I didn´t sleep with her though, altough I could have, because she had a boyfriend and I didn´t want to destroy that. We exchanged facebooks and she swamped me with messengers. I didn´t reply first but even her friend started writing to me that she is obsessed with me, she even send me a really cute video to my birthday. After that I replied and she told me that she split up with her boyfriend and wants to meet me. No idea how to handle stuff like that though, as she lives far away but I really like her and I am falling for her a bit.
Any suggestions?

She lives in Croatia. Don't even bother.

Distance has a funny way of distorting one's views of someone into fantasy. Not having sex with a girl you like does too.

Keep in touch with her, but I wouldn't get my hopes up or do anything drastic.

Tell her to fly to you lol. Given the fact that she split up with her bf AND flying to you, the level of investment she has in you will be off the chart.

(10-06-2011 05:03 AM)Brian Wrote:  Tell her to fly to you lol. Given the fact that she split up with her bf AND flying to you, the level of investment she has in you will be off the chart.

Which is not necessarily a good thing, lol... speaking from experience.

(10-06-2011 05:03 AM)Brian Wrote:  Tell her to fly to you lol. Given the fact that she split up with her bf AND flying to you, the level of investment she has in you will be off the chart.

If you tell her to fly to you, there's an terribly likely chance that she'll buy a one-way ticket. But it'll be a fun mess and a great story to tell to your grandkids in the future!