(09-30-2011 10:52 PM)Jon Wrote:  

(09-30-2011 02:24 PM)PepperSpray Wrote:  Sounds great in theory, but here's an experience my buddy had recently while running day game on campus on a college girl. He's a slightly older guy, slept with 40+ girls.

This is the problem with your logic. Any guy who sleeps with 40 girls will get a bunch of flakes. Doesn't matter how much comfort you build over text. You aren't playing to win, you are playing to not lose. Is your goal to not get rejected or to get the girl?

Yes but he tells me most of these lays came from chat rooms and online dating sites from the late 90s/early 2000s. Back then a woman gave you her house number, the number actually meant something and women kept their word! There's been a huge shift in the culture over the past decade with women becoming flakier than ever and men becoming more tolerant of flakiness. I blame smartphones and women hiding behind the anonymity of texting - a guy can't even make a phone call with the girl picking up nowadays - he needs to schedule an appointment to make a phone call, otherwise it's "needy" and "creepy".

Those were the good old days. Sadly I was still in middle school and high school back then. I wish I'd experienced the dating scene before texting and Facebook, both female-centric mediums... any guy under 30 missed the boat!