The most fun style of game to do in my opinion is dance floor game by far. I wouldn't even call it game, it's just pure fun. When one of your favorite songs comes on and you grab a girl to dance with you, there's nothing better. I was wondering if any of you guys were good at it as well? I was going to try to write about what I do as far as dance game goes, but I couldn't explain it in words really. I;m going to the club with friends tonight so I thought it'd be better to show you guys by filming it on my Iphone. I'll post it on this thread later.

Experiencing Technical Difficulties?

Yea, my wings consider that I'm pretty solid on the dance floor.

There's this really good youtube video by chihoe. Just type in how to grind dance on google.

He knows his moves.

The most basic thing is that you only need to know one move to be good at dance floor game.

Aw man, I had never been in one of these clubs and went in for it!

I asked like 7 girls to dance and only two said yes and they didn't seem into me at all. It really messed with my confidence that night.

My buddy (who left with a fine lady within about 40 mins) said to never "ask." And every girl I spoke to in the bar said "never ask, just grab em and go."

One girl was like "if she doesn't want to dance with you she'll just slap you or something, just grab the girl next her if this happens"

Frankly it's hard to get myself to do this. I've never "just grabbed" a girl. Getting myself to physically touch women is my biggest sticking point at this time. It seems like every time I make physical with a girl (even if it's just her shoulder or something) contact I instantly get super strong signals that she's creeped out. It really fucks with my confidence.

But seeing as I'm in college and really am starting to feel like something is seriously wrong with the fact that I'm not getting any ladies, I'm gonna go to the dance clubs here every weekend if I have to in order to master this. I think I just need to put on the mindset of dancing for fun rather than attempting to get laid.

Hey master, i totally get what your saying. I'm in college too and my biggest sticking point is also physically touching. Don't really understand the underlying belief behind it but for a month a year ago i did really well on the dance floor because i was alot more dominant i.e, not asking and initiating plus escalalting. And i did better than i ever have in my life. For some reason though i started becoming more self-conscious and stopped which has halted my results. How about we put our best foot forward and actively try to be more physical ( playfully, of course) and i'm sure we'll both succeed rapidly.

master, you don't have to ask a girl to dance. asking is a closed ended question - she'll either say yes or no. if she says no, then you're out of luck. one of the easiest ways to get a girl to dance with you is eye contact. after making EC, take that as an IOI or AI. you don't have to say anything to her, just approach her and start dancing. don't start touching her right away. some girls need to warm up to you and don't like to be touched early on. escalate slowly with simple compliance tests, e.g. give her a turn and see how she reacts. if she's cool then go further. don't go caveman, most gals aren't down for that. if you use tact when you escalate you'll increase your chances of a make out or number close. but don't try to #close on the dance floor. save the talking for off the floor and build rapport elsewhere.

check out this dudes site, he's got good stuff on his TIPS section, there are also vids that are helpful too. i learned dance game from his book and the shit's the real deal: http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/category/tips/

(10-19-2011 07:37 AM)thunderbolt Wrote:  master, you don't have to ask a girl to dance. asking is a closed ended question - she'll either say yes or no. if she says no, then you're out of luck. one of the easiest ways to get a girl to dance with you is eye contact. after making EC, take that as an IOI or AI. you don't have to say anything to her, just approach her and start dancing. don't start touching her right away. some girls need to warm up to you and don't like to be touched early on. escalate slowly with simple compliance tests, e.g. give her a turn and see how she reacts. if she's cool then go further. don't go caveman, most gals aren't down for that. if you use tact when you escalate you'll increase your chances of a make out or number close. but don't try to #close on the dance floor. save the talking for off the floor and build rapport elsewhere.

check out this dudes site, he's got good stuff on his TIPS section, there are also vids that are helpful too. i learned dance game from his book and the shit's the real deal: http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/category/tips/

Thank you! I appreciate the advice. I'll definitely check out the site!
It's kind of odd really. All my friends think I'm amazing with women simply because I talk to women and have hot friends here at school. I myself don't think I'm very good at all, but I really want to be in charge in that kind of environment.

I'm super anxious to go back to that environment, but my best friend/roommate isn't 21 yet so he can't go (it's seriously harsh here, they let in younger girls [if they're hot] but they check guys). He's having some trouble making friends and I can't bring myself to ditch him in our dorm on his own.

Flirt 2 the beat has some useful information You should aslo check out http://www.dancefloorgamedomination.com as well, there's a free guide on dance floor game

You can ask, but there are better ways to open imo. matching and mirroring, high fives, hip bumps and spins...

Mark: Looks like the previous post promotes commercial information in the guise of advice.

There is no commercial interest what so ever. Just pointing out useful information....