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TheZodiac Offline
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Anybody never want kids?
I don't think I do, I grew up all of my life with my family working hard, blue collar jobs. All the issues that they had and problems they have also been putting on me since a young age.

They always say I need to start making money and taking care of them. Since I can remember they have been taking my money because they "needed my help" and always telling me that since they raised me I owe them.

So basically I have never felt like I could just worry about me, no matter what happens in life in the back of my mind I always still stressed about my family which made it hard to make my own decisions.

Now I don't want kids and I just want to worry about myself! Maybe I will have a wife one day but I still don't want kids.

Anyone else never want kids and why?
09-14-2011 01:21 PM
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RE: Anybody never want kids?
How old are you?

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09-14-2011 01:41 PM
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RE: Anybody never want kids?
23 years old
09-14-2011 01:50 PM
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RE: Anybody never want kids?
Hahaha dude thats' really young but I'm 18 and i kinda came to the same realization. But i think once you grow up, you are still in fact young, and you find someone that you truly love the drive to want kids will increase. But for now I'm definitely on your side.
09-17-2011 12:42 PM
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RE: Anybody never want kids?
Actually you do owe them. They gave you life. I hope you don't hate your life. They provided you with what you need, they didn't dump you somewhere in trash or brought you to an orphanage.
I feel like I owe my parents big time. They pulled themselves and me through the hard times and I would be glad to make their lives better, when I will be able to.
I can't know your situation, the only thing I can say, they apparently aren't too subtle by saying you owe them. But in principle, they are right.
For me, it's the other way around. I don't really want "eternal love" or perfect marriage (although it would be nice), but I would be glad to have kids. I would be glad to help them and teach them. I think the parent-child relation is stronger then marriage.

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10-05-2011 10:35 AM
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RE: Anybody never want kids?
I hear a lot of people say this in the 18-25 age range. I used to say it. Now I'm 27 and am pretty firm on wanting them at some point, and that's been a recent decision. Five years ago, hated kids, thought they were loud and unbearably annoying. Now I find myself instinctively smiling at them. From what I understand, this is normal. The "biological clock" kicks in.

That's why I don't really take this statement seriously unless its made by someone who's 30+.

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10-05-2011 02:39 PM
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RE: Anybody never want kids?
I have met two black pua, both in their 40s and do not want kids. All they want is to bang bang bang. Both of these guys lays are in the hundreds too so i'm like...wtf. lol
10-05-2011 03:51 PM
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RE: Anybody never want kids?
Sounds like a pretty soulless existence.

I have a friend who's 51 and still does very well with women. He wanted kids when he was married but since he got divorced he's lost interest. Now he says he'd have them if the right woman came around but he's not really holding out for them or anything.

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10-05-2011 07:48 PM
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RE: Anybody never want kids?
My Dad wasn't around at all. I don't think my upbringing was optimal, so I'd like to raise my kids in a way that I didn't have.
10-08-2011 07:08 AM
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