so I got guys telling me to change my name
I got guys pushing me to go with indian women

and I got two guys giving me good advice

unfortunately threads like mines always attract bitter indian fobs, that is the main reason my insecurity came up, so many topics on the internet about women disliking indian men

and before I leave or anything, I want to know, I hear a lot about swedish and scandinavian women being beautiful

how are they different from your average american blonde?

on average taller, tend to be physically fit, tend to be naturally blonde (no color-damaged hair), on average very good complexion. Even aside from the blonde/blue eyed thing htey also just tend to have pretty attractive facial structures.

Dude I'm sorry. No amount of advice is going to change you. You are conveniently ignoring anything that doesn't match your world view. I can tell u right now that u will not succeed. U don't have the drive. All u want is sympathy. It's ok baby. Not everyone in life is meant to have what they want. Btw, the fob guy is not the bitter one. You are! One day, I hope u'll find the strength to accept yourself as u are. Until that day, adios. I don't like talking to immovable walls.

Imo, his situation is warranted. If he live in big cities like NY or LA, then it's legit to say that there are girls who will like him, but common, it's Alabama. Want some advice? Move out of there.

I'm sorry, but you're in a situation where the majority of people are white AND chances are, the majority of them are conservative. Have i attract conservative white girls? Sure, but its' 1000x easier to get liberal white girls to date asian dudes. I completely understand your situation because i have been in that shithole of a location before and i decided to move back to LA.

If you want to bang girls badly enough, move to LA, NY, florida or states that have more liberal white people. The choice is yours. Bitching about it on this forum isnt going to change a damn thing.

(09-08-2011 09:06 AM)Brian Wrote:  Imo, his situation is warranted. If he live in big cities like NY or LA, then it's legit to say that there are girls who will like him, but common, it's Alabama. Want some advice? Move out of there.

I'm sorry, but you're in a situation where the majority of people are white AND chances are, the majority of them are conservative. Have i attract conservative white girls? Sure, but its' 1000x easier to get liberal white girls to date asian dudes. I completely understand your situation because i have been in that shithole of a location before and i decided to move back to LA.

If you want to bang girls badly enough, move to LA, NY, florida or states that have more liberal white people. The choice is yours. Bitching about it on this forum isnt going to change a damn thing.

This dude is right, the Deep South is basically a barren wasteland as far as pickup opportunities go. And not just because of conservative chicks. There's also the whales.

I have really calculated out my plans. The best I will be able to do is transfer to the University of Alabama (main campus) and even then it will be tough as heck. Also, I don't want sympathy and why should I accept that I am an Indian? I am worried about the world seeing me as such because having lived here for nearly a decade that is all people have seen me as. Why can't I be the confident guy with swag?

Anyways thanks for understanding my situation and side comment. Girls in the deep south get married FAST, like we literally have 20 year olds engaged and 21 year olds married. Also, anyone finds out you had sex before marriage, that can be well, like the Scarlett Letter in a way.

Now enough with the excuses. Here is my plan, you tell me what I can do. I have talked to my parents about it.

Finish my undergrad from here (tough to go out of state for college or out of region and my parents are not willing to pay the fee, we are still considering it but it is unlikely).

Plan is to go to med school and my parents said they will do all I can to make sure I go to med school somewhere out of this "dump".

So by the age of 22-23, I expect to be out of the deep south. Strongly looking towards California and New York. If I am 25, would most women be married by then up in other areas? Tell me how things work experts. Because down here things are really different.

Most women here are not married by the age of 25(southern california) and even then, who the fuck cares. I'm 29 and the majority of girls i fucked are almost a decade younger than me haha. It helps that my asian gene makes me looks like i'm 18 .

So yeah, do what you can get out of alabama. Hell, the image i have of alabama is pretty bad. Probably a bunch of hicks who milk cows during their free time.

The only down side of california is finding a job, otherwise, it's a fucking awelsome place to live.

Do the best you can with what you've got. Why wait to move? That's just giving yourself another excuse. There are over 2.4 million women in Alabama. You can't find one who's single and liberal? Sounds like your fault, not Alabama's.

http://www.practicalpickup.com/you-are-not-a-victim

Take some fucking responsibility man. Have some pride. Whether you believe you can fail or succeed here, you'll be right. My suggestion is to start by writing down three things you can this week to make yourself more attractive and successful, and then challenge yourself to go out and do them. Maybe it's join a gym. Maybe it's buying new clothes. Maybe it's approaching 10 blonde girls. Whatever. Just go do it. Stop posting. And for the love of god, stop complaining.

And guys: stop feeding this guy's negative mindset more excuses. You're not helping.