You guys who get alot of girls, is this true???

Quote:You're kidding but regardless that's an interesting one too. I'm sure guys on here have noticed how girls go on and on about how "huge" you are when you fuck them from cold approach. "Oh you have the hardware baby OMG you hurt me baby..." blah blah.

Get this with almost every girl. Measured and, uhhhhhhhhhhh, they have a pretty good imagination. My buddy Mike (actually one of the Asian guys I was talking about) explained it to me like this -- guys get all worried about having a big dick, fucking the girl properly, etc. He says in reality all the girls care about is VALUE and if you have high value they orgasm more during sex, view the sex as being better, etc.

-Tyler

He also said earlier that the reason why you see alot of good looking guys with girls is cause of your RAS focusing on that cause of social conditioning ????

No, a girl saying oh my god you are big is talking dirty. It's not some optical illusion b/c of your value. She's trying to make you feel good. When a girl thinks you are big she says: oh shit that's big, go slow.

You don't need a huge dick to make a woman come vaginally. Just like the old saying, it's how you use it. When I've discussed my size with women I've had sex with they ALL say they prefer normal sized over porno sized. And they've all approved of my relatively average size.

Palf, lookup the "sex god method".

I think the point he's trying to make is that a woman's perception of you can change by how much she likes you. And I guess that's true. My ex-girlfriend used to comment that she thought I had the body of a Greek statue when I was like 210 lbs and 28% BF, lol.

I don't think it's every girl though. And I definitely don't think it's determined by cold approach. I've had tons of girls I laid off cold approach who didn't think I was all that. And I don't think it necessarily relates to dick-size either.

I think this is more Tyler taking something that's kind of true and then talking out of his ass.

As for RAS and good-looking couples, I think that's a load of bullshit. You see ugly guys with hot girls in many countries, but rarely in the US, and almost never on the west coast. I feel like I can state that with a fair amount of objectivity.

(09-05-2011 04:12 PM)Mark Wrote:  I think the point he's trying to make is that a woman's perception of you can change by how much she likes you. And I guess that's true. My ex-girlfriend used to comment that she thought I had the body of a Greek statue when I was like 210 lbs and 28% BF, lol.

I don't think it's every girl though. And I definitely don't think it's determined by cold approach. I've had tons of girls I laid off cold approach who didn't think I was all that. And I don't think it necessarily relates to dick-size either.

I think this is more Tyler taking something that's kind of true and then talking out of his ass.

As for RAS and good-looking couples, I think that's a load of bullshit. You see ugly guys with hot girls in many countries, but rarely in the US, and almost never on the west coast. I feel like I can state that with a fair amount of objectivity.

When your talking ugly dudes, are you talking about guys who dress like shit and are out of shape? or are you referring to guys who dress well and are in shape with just unpleasant facial features? cause I've seen some really unfortunate looking guys get some really hot girls just by sheer virtue of dressing well and working out. Their faces still look like someone set them on fire and put it out with a shovel though lol

lol. I mean not well kept. You see well-dressed guys in decent shape with hot girls quite a bit anywhere you go. The thing is, a lot of guys who you'd consider "good looking," if you really pay attention to them, aren't genetically very good looking at all. It's all in their body language, clothes and how they carry themselves.

By the same token I've seen plenty of "ugly" guys who genetically had very good facial features and physical proportions. THey just carried themselves horribly and dressed like shit.

(09-05-2011 06:20 PM)Mark Wrote:  lol. I mean not well kept. You see well-dressed guys in decent shape with hot girls quite a bit anywhere you go. The thing is, a lot of guys who you'd consider "good looking," if you really pay attention to them, aren't genetically very good looking at all. It's all in their body language, clothes and how they carry themselves.

By the same token I've seen plenty of "ugly" guys who genetically had very good facial features and physical proportions. THey just carried themselves horribly and dressed like shit.

Haha, this is more me.

Got close to getting with a hot girl recently. Slept with her a few times. Never materialised into anything. My initial 'game' was alright, but everything else fell apart.

I had a pretty shit selection of clothes. A beer belly. A not so interesting life. Lifestyle is so fuckin important if you want the top percentile of women Ive realised. Its possible that you can get by on being good looking etc and having a bit of confidence initially, but as soon as they start to see what your're really about, thats when shit can really hit the fan pretty fast.

Beer belly, poor clothing, shitty trainers, no proper goals. All this played its part. I mean I guess fundamentally it just didn't work but it made me realize how important all the little things are.

There are a lot of things that because we are are in the habit of - ie being poorly dressed or having a beer belly - because its so normal for you as its you every day, for a long time - you're blind to it. You don't see these big holes in your game.

But the top girls do. Its obvious really but when they have all those men to choose from, if you dont have the basics right then your chances are slim. I have always 'known' this from a theoretical level as I guess it really is common sense but its only when it happens to you that the penny drops.

girls with less value/looks/status will overlook these kinda 'flaws'.

The top percentile of girls won't.

"He says in reality all the girls care about is VALUE and if you have high value they orgasm more during sex, view the sex as being better, etc."

-Tyler

This is undoubtedly true. I know a guy who used to do porn and though his technique was beyond compare he was lousy in bed because he was so low value. Once he got his nimbus sorted though he just stopped worrying about it, and girls would come no matter what he did. I think he actually had a threesome with Tyler once and with their combined value they managed to make the girl squirt without touching her. I think it's somewhere on the 58 thousandth DVD of the bonus pack of the Blueprint.

(09-10-2011 02:36 PM)Eros Wrote:  "He says in reality all the girls care about is VALUE and if you have high value they orgasm more during sex, view the sex as being better, etc."

-Tyler

This is undoubtedly true. I know a guy who used to do porn and though his technique was beyond compare he was lousy in bed because he was so low value. Once he got his nimbus sorted though he just stopped worrying about it, and girls would come no matter what he did. I think he actually had a threesome with Tyler once and with their combined value they managed to make the girl squirt without touching her. I think it's somewhere on the 58 thousandth DVD of the bonus pack of the Blueprint.

Mark should install the option "like" for his forum just like facebook lol.

"Like"