There are plenty of guys in the community who despise women, and frankly, sometime it's good reason.

I havent been to nightclub in a long ass time, but i'm bored so i wanted to go out with friends to get drunk and have fun. I looked up yelp review and cant help but notice this review by a chick:

"Went with about 20 of my girls and as soon as we got there, we were invited to a table... which provided our alcohol for the whole night... we were wasted. Dancing on the stage thingy was fun and the smoke area was cute.... the music was cooool.

BUT with all that said, boooo because it was wayyy too TINY."

Face it, wether you like it or not, some girls who goes to nightclub a lot are some of the lowest quality human being on the planet. The lowest quality are users. Basically, they believe in taking every value that is freely offer to them.

In the asian culture, if someone offer you something, the LEAST you can do is say thanks. You dont just take and expect shit to be given to you. It's called "having manners" and it's definitely a deal breaker for me when it comes to relationship with any girl. I dont have time to educate any girls on class, if their parent failed at doing it for them, then fuck them.

Dont get me wrong though, I love women. I've met decent high value girls, and they're usually not in nightclubs. However, for guys who are too obsessed with getting laid and must go clubbing all the time, they'll be surrounded by these lowlife and these women will give a bad name to women all over the country.

It's the fault of those guys who support the behavior of these women and put up with their shit just because they have a vagina.

It's true, but also these women for using the guys as well. Face it, do you think mother teresa would do something like this even if she can?

Basically, coward men + low class women are great together.

You live in LA, right? I think ur on the mark picking up the pattern, but I think this may vary a bit by location. In my hometown of Calgary, all the female friends I hung out with (who were classy, polite woman) loved going clubbing on the weekend just to blow off steam and have some fun. In Seoul it seems to be the same way. I get the sense that rude, shallow woman tend to cluster in LA night clubs. I could be mistaken. Keep in mind that rude, shallow woman gotta leave the house during the day to buy groceries too

(09-07-2011 09:29 PM)matty Wrote:  You live in LA, right? I think ur on the mark picking up the pattern, but I think this may vary a bit by location. In my hometown of Calgary, all the female friends I hung out with (who were classy, polite woman) loved going clubbing on the weekend just to blow off steam and have some fun. In Seoul it seems to be the same way. I get the sense that rude, shallow woman tend to cluster in LA night clubs. I could be mistaken. Keep in mind that rude, shallow woman gotta leave the house during the day to buy groceries too

Exactly, I think the conclusions that 'club' women and 'day-time' women are some kind of different breed is way way too simplistic. Club women walk around in the day. Day women go clubbing.

I guess if anything you could say that a women in the day may be more approachable and in a club she puts up her bitch barriers. Or I guess you could say that those vain shallow sorts of girls may frequent nightclubs more then your well mannered 'good' women but I don't think there is that big of a correlation.

Although I don't have a gf I would say that even friends that I have made who are girls - they are all basically made during the day. I never met a friend really though a one of night out. Any girl that I like on an night will never usually turn into anything more then a few one night stands generally.

It is generally the way it goes for me. So I would say if your just looking to get laid, nights out are perfect and as least hassle as you could ask for generally.

If your looking for a serious relationship or something deeper, meeting girls out drunk and banging them isn't generally the ideal way to start a loving relationship.

It's not the girls, it's the context. When a girl is by herself in a grocery store buying milk, she's more likely to be open and genuine. When she's dancing in a club and drunk, she's going to be more erratic and distracted.

(09-04-2011 08:14 AM)Brian Wrote:  In the asian culture, if someone offer you something, the LEAST you can do is say thanks. You dont just take and expect shit to be given to you. It's called "having manners" and it's definitely a deal breaker for me when it comes to relationship with any girl.

There is no such thing as an Asian culture. Asia is very diverse.

In most Asian countries there is no obligatory thank you like in the western world which looks pretty rude when you go there the first time.

Girls in Asia take it mostly for granted that you invite them.

In general, Asian people have much much less manners, especially Chinese who have almost none, even the most successful and richest ones. Don't be suprised when Chinese people smoke in your face and spit on the floor in buildings.

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There are two types of asian, classy conservative and trash.

Trust me, I'm around the classy well mannered asian that i know for a fact the rude behavior is not tolerated in their circles.

It is unfortunate that after Mao's cultural revolution, there's more trash chinese than the conservative well manner chinese left. This is coming from my chinese friend's word as he relate to this sadly.

Brian with more bro-science.. this time breaking down the nuances of Asian culture. lol....

@Entropy: While they do lack in manners, Brian is right in that they tend to appreciate any acts of kindness, even if they may not express it with a verbal thank you. You need to look for non-verbals and/or other forms of expressions of gratitude.