I actually e-mailed this to Mark, but I forgot there was a forum here so I figured I'd get your guys' opinion on this.
So I met this girl through a mutual friend last weekend. I text her twice throughout the week and she agrees to come over my frat house last night. We all go out to the bars, and at the last bar it's just me and her two friends. It's great! It's almost as if her friends are reverse cockblocking me. They would make excuses to let us sit alone and talk, or alone to dance on the dance floor lol. We grab some pizza after the bar and walk back to her friends apartment. Her friends walk like 30 feet in front of us to give us some space. We're talking holding hands the whole way. I ask her to hang out this week, she says yes, awesome. We get back to the apartment watch TV for a bit and the girls want to go to bed so I leave. I texted her this afternoon, no response. I figure, maybe she missed it, so I called her after work. No answer, and she hasn't responded at all.
I've realized two things today from what I did the other night. One, you may be thinking "Dude! You totally should have made a move!" Well that could be the case, I didn't even kiss her. However, I talked to her friend that night and she has only ever had one boyfriend! She is really shy and I highly doubt she has had a one night stand, so I didn't want to move to fast (probably a big mistake). Two, I'm getting a little needy trying to contact her too much. I also was touching her a lot last night and a lot of gurus say don't touch just to touch, touch with a purpose.
I really like this girl and maybe that's why I'm getting so needy. She's a cute, innocent girl, that could be total gf material.
And to give you an idea of what I believe I'm experiencing read this article.
The reader who asked that question was me 8 months ago haha. I really hope this is not the same situation.
I'd appreciate any feedback.