Definitely see what your saying Schmechti, but as guys I think we should be asking ourselves if we REALLY want those kinds of woman. All the assholes I know may have hot girlfriends, but they, at least to me, don't seem like the kind of woman i'd want to spend time with. I don't know about you, but my main reason for wanting to improve and getting into all this was to bring attractive AND confident, warm, and affectionate woman into my life, rather than needy ones with self-esteem issues.