update: Last night first lay ever!. Blonde girl I've been chasing around a while. An easy 8 with big tits. We were both drunk, but fuck it, even the best use alcohol to get stuff done sometimes. She's still here right now and this time it's all thanks to my home girl who basically distracted her other cock block friend for me. She's a head chick who's a bigger girl but always leads the girls. Best wingman I've had ( of course this is my first lay so I'm kind of biased towards her). The lights were already dim and i played slower music on my laptop. Out of anything we could possibly talk about we talked about her past relationships and how she still has feelings for her ex. I thought this would be a buzz kill and also kill all my game with her. But, all I did was call her out on her shit and how I would never deal with her stuff in a serious way half the time, and a playful way the other half. Then I asked for a back massage and from there she started laying on the bed ( my homie's bed, sorry bro I'll wash the sheets) with me. We started making out (which I've done plenty of times b4 so I'm not inexperienced at that) then I went to the neck and from there it's biology. She didn't know I was a virgin and I sure as hell didn't tell her. I've already kept the lie going on a whole year in college so you guys are the only ones that know i never entered a woman till last night.

@ Brian: Haven't banged any fatties yet but if i do, I'll write it up in the report because I'm going to stay 100% honest (for myself) and I'm keeping track of every lay. Also, when it comes to Mark's article on " earning your standards" you misunderstood what he was trying to say. He said to hook up with girls you're attracted to, not fuck almost anything. That's called being DESPERATE. But most guys bullshit that a girl is below their standards as an excuse to not put in work in the field. Of course I wanna bang the hotties, but I'm also very down to bang 6 1/2's with nice bodies (because i'm attracted enough to them.) But, Brian I know what you mean when it comes to your black friend. I've got friends on our college basketball and football teams, and most black guys have low standards, sorry. Also, no offense but I could care less what "dj fuji" says. In all honestly I bet everything I'll have more lays then he'll ever dream of having by the time I'm 22 (I don't lack confidence at all). Most instructors don't bang girls very much, that's why I was drawn to Mark. You can just tell he gets asss. Most ppl say you can't learn anything from your everyday "natural" (which is a bullshit term) but I think that's bologna. Every guy i know that's good with women used to be scared shitless of them at one time, but over the course of trial and error, became good with women. There are know real "naturals". Also, when I talk to some of my friends, they know what they're doing and even talk game with me (in their own way) sometimes.

i'm going to write up day 2 and 3 later today, but i'm going to go do day game at this very moment and grab some pizza. Thanks for following me on my journey guys.

-Playmaker001

1. Urgh, guys bragging about losing their virginity on the internet. This is the side of pickup I hate. Sure, not everyone's first time is going to be some magical experience with unicorns and rainbows, but talking about your first lay as if it was just something to get out of the way so you can get to a hundred asap shows a messed up set of priorities.
2. Most guys do not bullshit that a girl is below their standards to put in the work in the field. Guys use plenty of excuses to avoid putting in work, and sometimes this is one of them, but overall this is a huge generalization, and it's counterproductive thinking.
3. Please don't racial stereotype. Maybe the black guys you hang around have low standards, but are you saying that most black guys in your city do? Your state? Your country? The world? Durex sex surveys show that there really isn't a huge difference in the numbers of partners different races have, so this is just plain ignorance.

(07-29-2011 08:43 AM)Eros Wrote:  1. Urgh, guys bragging about losing their virginity on the internet. This is the side of pickup I hate. Sure, not everyone's first time is going to be some magical experience with unicorns and rainbows, but talking about your first lay as if it was just something to get out of the way so you can get to a hundred asap shows a messed up set of priorities.
2. Most guys do not bullshit that a girl is below their standards to put in the work in the field. Guys use plenty of excuses to avoid putting in work, and sometimes this is one of them, but overall this is a huge generalization, and it's counterproductive thinking.
3. Please don't racial stereotype. Maybe the black guys you hang around have low standards, but are you saying that most black guys in your city do? Your state? Your country? The world? Durex sex surveys show that there really isn't a huge difference in the numbers of partners different races have, so this is just plain ignorance.

you've got to start somewhere don't you think?

Sure, if your aim is solely to rack up numbers. But when it comes to dating and sleeping with women, this is kind of messed up. Getting to 100 could be a byproduct of meeting and seducing many fantastic women, but if you're just rushing to get there then you're missing all the potential for positive experiences and growth on the way there. If that's how you treat your first lay, how are you expecting to treat the next 99 any better?

Good job dude. You seem really motivated. You will do great.

But yeah, enjoy! Enjoy the process, enjoy the girls you're with, enjoy the experiences you get.

@ Eros: To be honest, i had no real feelings for this blonde girl. Before or after i slept with her. She was just very attractive and i wanted to hook up with her. Whatever you want to call that, go ahead, but men do this on a daily basis and there's nothing wrong with it. Just because i was a virgin when it happened doesn't mean I have to romanticize the sexual encounter. It was drunk, lustful sex, that's it. Perhaps there will be a time before i get to one hundred where i will feel something special for the girl I'm hooking up with. If so, I'll write it up in this report because remember I'm doing it for myself, not to "brag" like you said earlier. But, again I'll cross that bridge when i get there. Relax, you're not dealing with some heartless player. I love women. The way they look, the way they think, their emotional makeup, etc. I just have a strong lust for them as well and see nothing wrong with wanting an abundance of them for now. I'm only a nineteen year old college student after all. So think about that next time you try to attack my character.

Now on to an update on my day two and day three day game.....or CREEP MODE as I like to call it.

Day Two and Three

I feel this is important to write about because it was a turning point in my interactions with the women during the day. Remember on day one I talked to a lot of women, but when it came time to transition into asking for the number, I wussed out time and time again. The way I got my first number during day two could have been just embarrassing if I let it be, but I didn't. I decided to take a long board with me the second day because i figured i could cover more ground, not be as tired physically, and catch up with girls that were far away from me. i see this pretty girl that captures my eye. I like to sort of eye fuck the girls on my way to approaching them. I did it with this specific girl as i skated up to her. As i was looking at her I failed to see the huge rock right in front of my board. I fell face down ( blocked myself from falling on my face though) right in front of her. Other people saw it happen. She saw it happened, and yeah it wz embarrassing to a certain degree. But something inside me said that the girl was still into me and I'm still a cool ass mofo. So i got off the ground, saw her smiling/smirking and said "What you laughing at me" in a nonchalant/ confident way ( because that's how i felt on the inside despite busting my ass on the board). She said no and asked if i was ok. I made fun of my clumsiness but blamed it on her being cute. A little chit chat, I made sure to introduce myself, and then..... drum roll please....I pulled out my phone and asked for her number. After that first number close, things just became easier. Within day two and day three I managed to get seven numbers. Keep in mind there are not very many ppl on campus at all this summer, so next year when fall semester starts, my numbers should go up tremendously.

The Good

1. Asking for numbers is becoming a habit.
2. I'm beginning to notice patterns. For example it's easier and more calibrated to do a situational opener when the girl and you are side by side walking the same way. Indirect and direct when a girl is about to walk past you. Through trial and error i learned to call a girl when she's about five feet away (before i'd do it when they were real close to me and it didn't work out) about to walk past you. I say a loud "EXCUSE ME" and then walk up to her with my "question".

The bad

1. I still let hot girls go by without approaching them more often then I'd like.
2. Still a wuss when it comes to opening very direct.
3. Sometimes i still mumble my words talking to the girls.

The Ugly

1. The only ugly thing is my logistics situation right now. i don't move into my place until about a week and a half from now so I'll just have to wait because I'm at my moms again ( *sigh* the life of a youngster).

So I might not have any more updates until fall semester starts unless I can find a good place to do day game around my mom's place, or unless i go to the club with my friends. Hope you guys reading are putting in work with the ladies also!

- Playmaker001

@ Mark: This is a question for you homie. My plan is to approach a ton of girls on campus during the day this year. In hopes of sleeping with a lot of girls. i want to know:

1. If this will screw up my reputation on campus (seeing as ppl know ppl)
2. What if i run into the same girls but forget because i've talked to sooo many.
3. Do i just invite girls to parties and to my place to "watch movies" and study if i want to get laid. Or can i take them on little dates on campus as well ( keep in mind I'm a broke college student and these are young girls who are busy socially and haven't gone on many dates in their life before, not to mention some younger girls seem to be socially slower then i thought they would be.)

My plans are to start approaching right from move in day. I'm going to immediately be that social, flirty guy and even get numbers from the girls who will be livng in the complex I live at. This campus is huge, but if I'm doing something wrong or that could kill my reputation with my best friends/ fellow students PLEASE let me know.

Other members feel free to give advice as well.