I'm more motivated to get laid now then I've ever been before. However, when I do something, I like to do it BIG. So, my goal is not 1, not 10, but 100 LAYS. I'm going to document my progress here and each lay I get, not really for you guys but for my own benefit. That being said, I know there will be those that may want to read my thread so I'll give a little background about myself.

BACKGROUND:
I'm 5 ft. 11. Bi-racial. Average to fairly good looking with a great sense of style. I've always been popular, funny, intelligent, talented musically and athletic. I've won awards for Speech competitions (which you'd think would help me be verbally smooth with women) and I just finished my first year of college at a university that's top ten in playboy's "campuses with the hottest girls" . All in all, you'd think I had all the qualities to be getting laid somewhat at least. Guess again. I'm a 19 year old VIRGIN. I've had girlfriends and a number of opportunities to sleep around in the past. However, I grew up in a very religious family and for a while I was very religious myself. Because of the conflicting views and ppl all around me drilling it into my head that sex out of wedlock is "evil", I would feel a ping of guilt every time I'd hook up with a girl and start to take it too far. Well, I'm a changed person now and honestly, horny as blue hell. It's summer vacation now and I've got nothing but time. So I started Operation Creep Mode earlier today for the first time on my college campus, and I was excited to say the least.

DAY ONE

I arrive on campus around 9 in the morning. I didn't eat any breakfast so my plan was to creep on an empty stomach (bad idea). It's hot as hell outside so my goal is to get two numbers from two girls I'm physically attracted to and be out. I start chatting with random people I see just to get in the talking mood ( I used to do this before giving speeches at competition and it works).

The first girl I decide to chat up is this cute latina driving a cart around campus. I told her it looks like she knows her way around campus and asked her directions to a certain building. She gets out of her cart to point it out to me. I check her out and notice she has a beautiful ass. Acting like I was still confused she offered me a ride there in her cart. Of course i said yes, and we went on our way. I got her to talk about herself a little. Told her where i was living next year and she said she partied there multiple times. I could tell she was into me, it was obvious. I asked her name. This would have been the perfect time for me to get her number by asking her to party with me sometime or something but.......I pussied out. i got out of the cart, told her thanks, and we parted ways. *sigh* I really need to grow a pair.

The second girl I talked to was a smoking, sorta edgy brunette. She was wearing a black sun dress. She smiled to me and played with her hair from 6 feet away. I asked about some bullshit directions and she had no clue where the building was. I didn't care, really just wanted to get her number and fuck her later. She said it was her third year, so I jokingly said I was dissapointed in her for not knowing the campus by now. Told her where i was staying, exchanged some pleasantries. She giggled. It was all going good but just in the knick of time, the coward inside me started to make me have doubts. So like a pussy, I told her thanks for attempting to help and walked away. Didn't ask for her number. Didn't even ask for her name. Missed out on another opportunity with a hottie. Oh the shame!!!

This same kind of story plays itself out three more times that day before I was too tired and hungry to carry on! With a cute, tall red head with big tits (she even TRIED to keep talking to me but I pretended like I had somewhere to go) With an adorable blonde, Aussie girl. And with a petite white girl with the best ass I've seen in a while. Each and everyone of those girls were hot. Each and everyone of them will likely not be getting fucked by me. Why? Too scared to ask for the number.

THE GOOD:

1. First day doing day game ever and I didn't cower out of approaching hot girls.
2. My body language and tonality were solid.
3. Had obvious IOI's from the majority of girls I talked to.
4. I'm a damn good actor ( almost convinced myself I was REALLY lost and needed directions)
5. Transitioned and got some of the girls to talk about themselves a little.
6. Mentioned where i was living so they knew I was legit, not some creep pretending to be a student.

THE BAD

1. I let there be awkward pauses sometimes.
2. Didn't lead the convo as well as I should have.
3. Didn't eat. Had a hangover and felt out of it fairly quickly.
4. Didn't approach some other cute girls and let them walk by.

THE UGLY

1. DIDN'T INTRODUCE MYSELF TO 4 out of the 5 hot girls I approached.
2. Didn't ask for a possible meet up with any of them.
3. DIDN'T GET ANY NUMBERS.

Conclusion:
I gotta improve quickly if I ever plan on sleeping with 100 women. Oh and here's a good idea. Next time I should actually ask for their numbers! Tonight there's a party and I'm going to try to bang this blonde I was getting pretty physical with last night. Wish me luck.

Yours truly,

Playmaker001

Kudos for starting this and for being so motivated. But you realize this is going to be like a 4-5 year long thread, right? Even some of the best instructors only sleep with (lol, "only") 25-35 women a year. What I'm saying is, don't treat this like a sprint, treat it like a marathon.

I made this same pledge to myself when I got into this stuff in 2006. My buddy and I actually started a race. He was at 8 and I was at 4. It was fun to try and one-up each other. We went back and forth all the way up until about 25 or so, when I started to pull away. Five years later and I'm still not to 100 yet, lol... although I'm getting close. Since I broke up with my girlfriend in 2009, I've been going through 20-25 girls a year.

It sounds like you will do great once you overcome your fear of (number) closing.

You should know that the girls you were talking to were probably just as disappointed when you didn't ask for their numbers as you were!

Mark, who is that in your profile picture? Because it sure doesn't look like you.

(07-23-2011 09:55 AM)Philip Wrote:  It sounds like you will do great once you overcome your fear of (number) closing.

You should know that the girls you were talking to were probably just as disappointed when you didn't ask for their numbers as you were!

Mark, who is that in your profile picture? Because it sure doesn't look like you.

It's the super-sexy version of Mark.

Sorry to hear you lost your faith along the way my friend. If you ever feel like talking about it, my door's always open.

Personally, I'm unsure of how healthy it is to just aim to sleep with 'x' number of women. We all do it to some extent of course. But I think its unrealistic. In the end your dealing with human beings. Its complete objectifcation to just aim to sleep with 100 women. The people that sleep with over 100 women, I dont think they aim to. They just do. Or they have a very high sex drive and that then turns into a natural motivation.

I guess of course its good to have some 'goals' as it were. But I think its wise to remember that in the end, its all about happiness and having fun with people. Enjoy meeting girls for meeting girls sake, as opposed to just meeting girls to get your numbers up.

Unless you love and enjoy women enough to just want more of them for exactly that, then sleeping with over 100 is unrealistic anyway.

I think lay counts and setting numerical goals like this have their place in the short-term. To improve at anything you have to objectify it a bit. And that comes with the territory with this pick up stuff. The trick is to keep perspective and not get lost in the objectification and start thinking that's reality.

And it's totally possible to enjoy and appreciate each individual woman you're with and still care about your lay count. The two aren't mutually exclusive. I've been doing it for years, lol.

(07-23-2011 08:23 AM)Playmaker001 Wrote:  THE UGLY

1. DIDN'T INTRODUCE MYSELF TO 4 out of the 5 hot girls I approached.
2. Didn't ask for a possible meet up with any of them.
3. DIDN'T GET ANY NUMBERS.

I say don't stress about not asking for numbers. You are in a captured market, and there is a good chance you may run into these girls again.

i have always been a huge fan of what i call "planting seeds". You flirt a little, you show some interest and you leave it for another day. Maybe you find out she has a BF anyway, so you play nice and put your timer on and maybe you run into her in a month or two and she remembers your encounter and she's in a better frame of mind.

Obviously there are times you want to take the chance, or need to close right now, but especially in daytime encounters where you think you will prob see her again, leaving a little tension between you might help the next time you see her...and that can work wonders.

The time to beat yourself up is if you are in a different city, or meet someone in a place you typically don't go. all in all it's a solid start. good luck.

(07-26-2011 04:42 AM)007 Wrote:  Personally, I'm unsure of how healthy it is to just aim to sleep with 'x' number of women. We all do it to some extent of course. But I think its unrealistic. In the end your dealing with human beings. Its complete objectifcation to just aim to sleep with 100 women. The people that sleep with over 100 women, I dont think they aim to. They just do. Or they have a very high sex drive and that then turns into a natural motivation.

Part of the question of whether it's healthy or unhealthy is the motivation.

If it's:
"I feel like crap about myself - I think I'll feel better, and have higher self-esteem if I get a lot of notches on my belt."
it's not so healthy. It's all or nothing - get laid or feel like a failure.

If it's:
"To sleep with 100 [or whatever] women, I'm going to need to improve myself into a kick-ass, top quality example of a man. Someone who's really interesting, self-confident, and desirable to others (but especially women."
then that's reasonably healthy. Even if you stop, satisfied, at 10, 20, 50 or whatever, you've grown yourself into the man that you want to be in the process.

Focusing on who you will need to become in order to be the kind of man who reaches that goal, instead of just the goal itself, is almost always a healthier way to go about it.

The key is to do the latter while still avoiding self-mind-games and rationalizing failures (e.g. "oh well, I didn't approach anyone tonight, but I'm becoming the kind of man I want to be like, really!").

My biggest issue with the goal of a 100 lays is that the goal comes from a position of frustration with his current (absence of a) sex life. He's probably horny as hell and sexually frustrated, and he feels like "Man, I want to bang a hot girl SO BAD. I want it so bad I want a HUNDRED DIFFERENT ONES!" But this level of desire and sexual frustration will probably disappear once he has a few dozen, or even just a few, lays.

Quote:Focusing on who you will need to become in order to be the kind of man who reaches that goal, instead of just the goal itself, is almost always a healthier way to go about it.

That. Also, combine this with short-term goals. It makes a lot of sense for him to have a goal to just get laid as soon as he can.