Do you like the girls you're sleeping with? Are you attracted to them? Or are you more excited by the validation getting them provides rather than the sex itself?

This could be a product of your priorities or it could also be a product of how you're gaming these women. If you're gaming them in such a way that inhibits any sort of connection and you're dumpster-diving to get easy results, then yeah, the sex is going to be really lame and unexciting.

I don't really know. Yes, the chick was fat. But I was definitely attracted when I was gaming her. In fact, I had a boner, because she had a good smile and seemed like a genuinely nice person. Maybe, it is just too much porn, maybe it is not enjoying the experience etc. There is definitely an emotional connection. Although I found that once I had vaginal access, I didn't particularly care. Maybe it is a combination of things. I need a hotter girl and need to enjoy the process more. I can definitely say that on my binary scale, I didn't find this girl unattractive.

Well that fact that you didn't say "this girl was hot" and instead spent a paragraph justifying why you slept with her kind of answers the question.