(07-17-2011 08:44 AM)Mark Wrote:  I think qualification is a natural side effect of other attractive behaviors, so it's not worth focusing on it separately. In fact, that's what I believe about most PUA techniques, they're natural side-effects if you get the correct concepts and beliefs down.

What do you mean that it's a natural side effect of other attractive behaviors? I'm guessing you mean something like, "not putting up with bullshit you find unacceptable" naturally leads to screening girls.

But I always thought qualification was more "telling her why you like her".

Qualification is basically the process in which you make her feel like she's gaining your approval. That she "qualifies" to be with you. If she's interested in you and you're honest and open about what you think about her, then this should happen on its own.

I think that's because women aren't robots... they can't be programmed and so you can't always go with the same thing. I try to learn different methods and trust my gut. I figure if my gut is right 2/3 of the time, then hell, maybe I can learn from the other 1/3 and improve from there