I copy and past a ton of notes I read from many different articles, books, and blogs I have read the past 2 years. Every now and again I go through them and certain things stand out based on my recent experiences. Thought I would share. Thoughts and comments and anything to add would be great...

I think the first is from another website... sosuave.com
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall124.htm


"What you have to do is learn to keep them guessing about you the same way women always keep us guessing about them.
Too many of us guys are always trying to read every little sign, every little signal and we react to them like a puppet. If she smiles and touches you, you’re happy for a week. Then next week she won’t even acknowledge you exist and you’re ready to swear off women and become a priest or something.
We gotta stop giving them the power to make us jump whenever they want us to. We need to reverse this and have them always trying to guess about us.
In one of my earlier posts, I said that women are attracted to men who add some mystery and excitement to their lives. They like it when you take them on emotional rollercoaster rides and keep em on the edge of their seats. Simply put: Pay her a lot of attention one day and the next day pay her less.
Don’t completely ignore her or come off like you have an attitude or something. Just act like you have other things that are attracting your attention or are more important to you at that time."

(07-14-2011 12:11 PM)BrB Wrote:  Don’t completely ignore her or come off like you have an attitude or something. Just act like you have other things that are attracting your attention or are more important to you at that time.

OR ...
actually have other shit in your life.

(07-14-2011 12:33 PM)Jon Wrote:  OR ...
actually have other shit in your life.

true statement...

(07-14-2011 12:36 PM)BrB Wrote:  

(07-14-2011 12:33 PM)Jon Wrote:  OR ...
actually have other shit in your life.

true statement...

I think a lot of men don't have enough interesting things to do in their lives. Many guys have lives revolving around work and watching tv / wasting time on the internet after work. When a girl finally comes into their lives they smother her.

I'd think I'd extend that to most people, not just men. When you talk to someone and all they do is see friends at the weekend, work and maybe go to the gym... that's not someone I'd want to be involved with. Those things are maintenance activities, and I want to be with someone who gets excited and passionate about what they are involved in.

So much of the 'The Rules' or playing hard to get advice for women is similar - don't agree to every date, don't call him back straight away all the time, etc etc blah blah blah. When you have an filled life and active social life, that kind of thing just happens, and you don't have to fake it. It's no surprise that so many 'naturals' are people who have always been social or into clubs and sports.

"They like it when you take them on emotional rollercoaster rides and keep em on the edge of their seats"

I've found this to be totally true, although the older the woman is, the less tolerance she has for stuff that’s too far out of the box or is too frequent.

I went through a pretty dark period in my 20s, where I was working my ass off, and wondering if “this” was going to be my life…so I was out tearing it up several nights a week. Total Jeckll and Hyde. I had a GF at the time, worked with her and so she saw me one way during the day, and then I would show up wasted at her apartment unannounced at 3am, or drag her to strip clubs, drink with her until she puked. Really stupid stuff. But she loved me, cause she never knew what to expect. Kept in touch with me for years even when I moved away.

(07-19-2011 06:06 AM)Greenlight Wrote:  "They like it when you take them on emotional rollercoaster rides and keep em on the edge of their seats"

I've found this to be totally true, although the older the woman is, the less tolerance she has for stuff that’s too far out of the box or is too frequent.

I went through a pretty dark period in my 20s, where I was working my ass off, and wondering if “this” was going to be my life…so I was out tearing it up several nights a week. Total Jeckll and Hyde. I had a GF at the time, worked with her and so she saw me one way during the day, and then I would show up wasted at her apartment unannounced at 3am, or drag her to strip clubs, drink with her until she puked. Really stupid stuff. But she loved me, cause she never knew what to expect. Kept in touch with me for years even when I moved away.

Sounds like a period of my life that I'm currently going through right now minus the GF.