I don't know about you guys, but I'll often have the situation where there are 2 or 3 girls I find attractive somewhere, and I'll have trouble choosing which to approach. The thought process goes sort of like this: "well, if I approach girl A, and she rejects me, then I won't be able to approach girl B, because I'll already look bad," etc. etc. etc. etc. overthink overthink overthink, and I eventually end up waiting too long and screwing up or approaching nobody.

So this just hit me: the right answer to this situation is to just fucking pick one. And that failing to pick one is just a symptom of approach anxiety -- that all this bullshit fear about screwing up on #2 if I get rejected by #1 is just a lame excuse to approach 0.

Just putting that out there in case anyone has similar experiences.

Alternatively, approach the group with a bullshit opener. Example, today, I opened with, "My friend and I were talking about what color a fluffy dinosaur should be in a toy shop - blue or green. You, yes you, pick one". Then based off of who gives you more interest, show interest isolate and you are off to the races.