I'm having some trouble with younger girls. Mostly, it so happens that the friends don't want me talking to the girl. This is so, even if the girl I like is really attracted. Often times, the girl is not able to step up to her friend and tell her that she likes me.

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Examples:

The girl was engaged. She never told me. She was enjoying the seductive vibe. Her friend came and let me know in no uncertain terms that I should leave because the girl is engaged.

The girl was enjoying the interaction. Her friend came and wanted me to leave. I could tell from the target girls' facial expressions that she wants me to stay. Eventually, she said, she'll come and find me.
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How do I deal with this better? It seems like younger girls have this herd mentality. They also seem unsure of what they want. It almost seems to me like the effort/result ratio with younger girls is just not worth it.

Just get her phone number and tell her you want to see her again.

If her friends have doubts about you, should generally talk more with her friends and get to know them. If they like you, they are allmost never cockblocking.

What Extropy said. You've got to disarm the herd and win them over.

PS. How young are 'younger girls' to you? lol. To me, 'younger girls' are like 17, 18 hahaha

(06-19-2011 06:45 PM)shadow Wrote:  How do I deal with this better? It seems like younger girls have this herd mentality. They also seem unsure of what they want. It almost seems to me like the effort/result ratio with younger girls is just not worth it.

Agreed. IDK about what range of age are you talking about but it seems that you are talking about girls in their 20-24 y-o. They are too immature to know how to handle a relationship. Go for girls 25 +. More experience, they have had some partners and they don't play so many games. Besides, they are getting old and are scared of not getting married, so they are not gonna waste time.
http://www.practicalpickup.com/the-guide-to-older-women
Just my 2 cents.