its been 2 months since i made a post where the replies simply discouraged me and just knocked me of my (delusional) perch (i dont even want to talk about it). during those two months i went to another city and i ended up meeting this girl who just smokes me at guitar. i didnt run "game" on her. eventually i slept with her a couple of times during my stay at her city. she took me to the local jazz bar she plays at, and looking back at the year i spent "learning" game, i neglected my passion: playing guitar. she brought back that love and passion and im glad to say we're hitting it off pretty well at the moment. thanks to everyone who hit me with that massive punch in the gut filled with "reality"

(06-14-2011 01:25 AM)Truth Wrote:  i didnt run "game" on her. eventually i slept with her a couple of times during my stay at her city.

PU skills and "game" are not some secret weapons the world doesn't know of. You obviously ran game on her if you got her into bed.

Can't speak for the OP, but personally I see 'game' as contrived and forced. (although there is nothing wrong with it, if you're a good performer and girls like it, why not?)

I don't see being genuine and going with the flow as "game".

Grats to OP for getting his shit sorted.

what i meant by "game" was the typical use of routines, terminology, structures and ideologies put forth by typical "PUA gurus". i just went on, took responsibility for whatever i was feeling (not necessarily verbalizing them. i trusted her womans intuition too). not TRYING to do stuff like all that DHV stuff and other contrived things that i force-fed myself for a year only to learn how to lie and/or exaggerate to please my fellow "lairmates" for brofists and props i never even needed to be content and focused with growing as a person.