Hey,

What do you think are some good topics to build a deep emotional connection with women. I know it will vary from guy to guy, but it would be helpful to get a general theme going. In the past I have talked about:

-Embarrassing moments in my life
-First time I fell in love
-First time I asked a girl out
-First kiss
-Past relationships
-My dreams, hopes, and ambitions

I also like to compliment girls on looks or other characteristic that I find admirable (being kind, sweet, caring, etc)

Some things that I think might be a good idea, but I usually avoid:

-How I lost my virginity (I lost it when I was 21, so kind of embarrassed to bring that up)
-How I was bullied a lot as a kid and how I had to build my self esteem up ( I think I told this to just one girl)

What other general topics can be talked about?

Thanks.

Stories about your childhood are usually home runs.

Well, my first day of college, the prof. asked for a volunteer to tell their life story and have the class write a report on it. I thought it would be a great idea to make myself known to everybody in the program, so I layed it all out there. Getting bullied a lot as a kid, struggling with my speech impediment, overcoming obstacles, etc. Honestly, by the time I was finished (and managed to tell the whole story with perfect fluency - yes!) everyone was just floored. One of the girls stood up and told me I was really brave for telling everyone that stuff and the rest of the class agreed. From the point on, I had the girls eating out of the palm of my hand. And they were all convinced that I could relate to them on an emotional level and had this special ability to connect with people.

I think that talking about the struggles you've overcome in your life and you know, sharing some touching personal details is a great way to build a deep connection.

However, I'd avoid sexual topics in this regard ie. the virginity thing.