Joined: Apr 2011
Really bad advice off a newsletter
I subscribe to a few newsletters and one of them is Cliff's list. I enjoy reading the lay reports from time to time, but this one is just so bad and misogynistic that I wonder how many guys actually read this and were like "fuck yea man, that's the attitude you gotta have!" or something like that
Quote:Recently I had another story. Got this cute brunette over to my house from
the bar. Had made no move on her before that. We drink a bit, then head to
bed. She spoons me and finally I go for her lips, but she resists: "I am NOT
kissing you and I am NOT having sex with you." Now … this is a bit
strange, considering she was the one who asked me what I was doing later on
and agreed to come over to my place at 3 AM. So of course, this was token
resistance in my mind. But further insistence was met with a very unsavory
sounding "PLEASE just stop." So of course at this point I have no choice but
to politely ask her to leave. I am not sleeping next to someone as
consolation prize for not fucking them. Sure I could have played the waiting
game, went on one, two, three or god knows how many dates before sexing her.
But what kind of pathetic desperate loser would I be then ? Fucking
pathetic. The chances of major disappointment are way too high to put in so
much commitment, and the signals are already very bad. (Not even a kiss ?
Give me a break.)
At first she's shocked, tries to play nice. I'm gentle but firm. When she
realizes that she won't get what she wants, she FREAKS THE FUCK OUT. She
tells me she has no money for a cab: shoulda thought of that one before
coming here. She says it's 4 AM and it's raining: I'm sorry but too bad. So
finally, she makes a small storm in my house, knocks over the champagne
bottle and leaves her shoes behind. Yes: Miss Princess actually left my
place in the rain at 4 AM barefoot !
Like I said to a friend … sometimes you get laid … sometimes you get
And honestly, I much prefer cleaning up her mess and throwing out her shoes
to accepting the frame she was trying to impose on me. Like I'm another
candidate to be one of her orbiters. Man, fuck that.
|06-10-2011 08:42 AM
Joined: Apr 2011
RE: Really bad advice off a newsletter
(06-10-2011 08:58 AM)Jon Wrote: Ugh what a fucking asshole. Admittedly, if his story is accurate, the girl's behavior is a bit ridiculous. If you meet a dude at a bar and he invites you home, don't go if you have no interest in even making out. That said, his response is totally inappropriate.
|06-10-2011 09:58 AM