(06-12-2011 02:27 AM)DaveyDrama Wrote:  

(06-12-2011 02:00 AM)TheBoss Wrote:  Well you said that you have done anal sex and went down on a girl. I'm not a religious expert, but isn't that worse? Doesn't the bible suggest NO SEX (or any form of adultery) before marriage, and then its strictly vaginal sex?

Well, you're kind of right. - I don't know what the adultery thing is about? Wrong word choice? And I've never heard of the only vaginal sex thing, but I'm Prodestant, right? Maybe that's a Catholic thing. The problem is that I'm having too many of these conversations on too many different threads lol so not everybody is reading everything I write. I'll explain again.

I'm not a virgin. I've had sex with 3 different girls. 1 of them was a complete drunken fuckup and I don't really want to count that, so for practical purposes let's just say 2.

Those are the beliefs that I was raised with - the ones that you outlined. But after a while I realized, hell, I might not ever even GET married - at this point it doesn't look likely. So I had to figure out what I was going to do. In the Bible, it also explains that you should avoid lust and instead focus on love. So I decided that I was only going to have sex with a girl when I was in love with her. Never just to bust a nut. So that's the belief I was working from when I lost my virginity and then had sex with the girl I've been 'with' (on/off) for the past 2 years now.

and what does the bible say about encouraging women to thinking that you want casual sex with them at bars and then telling them no at the last minute? Cuz the law calls that entrapment.