Two nights ago, I was having dinner with w a casual girlfriend before having sex. Well, nothing special... but afterwards I went with friends to a club without her because she had to work on the next day. What I found very supprising was that in the club they girls were much more attracted to me than usual. A few girls approached me which normally rarely happens, a girl I dated a month ago and haven't talked to since then was hitting on me so hard and I rejected her because I'm not into her character (on the first date I obviously wanted to fuck her)... I didn't really care if I had sex after the club and her character bored me so bad that I didn't really want to spend time with her. Furthermore, picking up a girl is much less interesting when it's not a challenge.

I had they feeling that I was more attractive to those girls than usual. Maybe it's just that you are happier, less needy and more confident after sex and thus look more charismatic. Maybe it was just an coincidence, because I usually get laid several times a week and this was the first time I experienced that. What's your experience and opinion on that matter?

I know Janka swears by this... I've never really noticed it. Or at least not on a consistent basis. But then again, after I've had sex I'm usually far more interested in food than with how many women are paying attention to me.

I definitely get a huge ego boost and my confidence skyrockets.

There's the old myth that women can 'smell' sex on you, and are subconsciously drawn to you. Sort of a primal 'he's attractive because he gets fucked so I'll fuck him' theory.

In my own case I have noticed a psychological boost after having sex. I'm more relaxed, so flirting / pulling feels easier. Rejections don't hurt as much when you know you've just had sex or can get regular sex. If you've had a dry spell it's easy to get tense or become too desperate.

I feel it helps my game to go out on the pull after having sex, but I've never really sat down and examined the statistics! It's sex and pick-up, not math class

For me it´s complete the opposite, because I am too relaxed, after having sex I am even to lazy to approach. It´s true that you don´t look needy or desperate, but at least in my case I am missing a lot of my sexual aggression.

I'm usually fast asleep by that point lol