What you say makes a lot of sense. I've had that experience of discovering that she's not what I thought she was. Thanks Jon.

(05-24-2011 04:30 AM)Jon Wrote:  It is common, but it is not healthy, and there are tons of people who are perfectly capable of not getting infatuated with women they don't know well. Stop fantasizing about women, and keep a level of objectivity. She might not be who you think she is. Keep that in mind until you get to know a woman well. It's not healthy or mature to put women on a pedestal who you aren't that serious about.