lol... that is a problem tho, sometimes the "excuse" can backfire.

Back when I was still jsut getting good, I downloaded a pirated copy of "The Departed." This was 2006 and so it was all the rage. I had no clue what it was about. All I knew was that Matt Damon and Leo DiCaprio were in it. So I used it as an excuse to get a girl back. We put it on and within 20 minutes, Leo is strangling people to death, Jack Nicholson is waving bloody hands around and jerking off to school girls.

Needless to say, I did not get laid that night, lol. She made it about an hour before coming up with an excuse to go home.... Fail.

(06-07-2011 08:21 AM)Mark Wrote:  I'm convinced this is why guys get LMR. They find shortcuts to get girls who aren't actually comfortable around them yet into coming home with them, and once the girl's in bed, she freaks out and starts resisting because she realizes she's not comfortable with him. If she's comfortable with you to begin with, then there's no reason for her to resist any step of the way.

Yep, that has happened to me. For us men attraction is more than enough to have sex. For women, they can be very attracted to you but they need to trust you and feel comfortable with you to have sex.
About excuses, I remember I brought a woman to my house some time ago that was VERY attracted to me BUT she didn't want to have sex with me when we came to my home. I invited her to have dinner with me that same night, we talked a little bit about life, dreams, ambitions, etc. And we came back home and had sex, she said to me: Thanks for the dinner, I appreciate we did that first. IDK if it was an ASD but it helped her to feel more comfortable with me and see that I was interested about her as a person. To be honest I was floored, I couldn't understand how if she was so aroused (we had a very good previous foreplay session) she didn't want to have sex with me. But after we had dinner she felt a lot more relaxed and comfortable with me. I think she didn't want to feel used.

I have a pretty easy to do date sequence that I run girls through in Japan. It works really well here, but Im not so sure it would fly in America or elsewhere, mostly because it's done in an "izakaya." The only thing you need to know to do it properly is how to time physical escalation.

In Japan, there are restaurants with private rooms that nobody can see inside (izakayas), so you can toss logistics right out the door and get blown or even have sex with a girl while you're still in the restaurant. Recently, I been having sex in public like this about 2-4 times a month, just got another one last night actually ~

Maybe I'll write it up for you guys someday if you're interested in hearing about it, don't want to anger Marcus Mansonius the god of Practical Pickup.

I have a pretty easy to do date sequence that I run girls through in Japan. It works really well here, but Im not so sure it would fly in America or elsewhere, mostly because it's done in an "izakaya." The only thing you need to know to do it properly is how to time physical escalation.

In Japan, there are restaurants with private rooms that nobody can see inside (izakayas), so you can toss logistics right out the door and get blown or even have sex with a girl while you're still in the restaurant. Recently, I been having sex in public like this about 2-4 times a month, just got another one last night actually ~

Maybe I'll write it up for you guys someday if you're interested in hearing about it, don't want to anger Marcus Mansonius the god of Practical Pickup.

(08-29-2011 05:46 PM)Fluffy McGee Wrote:  I have a pretty easy to do date sequence that I run girls through in Japan. It works really well here, but Im not so sure it would fly in America or elsewhere, mostly because it's done in an "izakaya." The only thing you need to know to do it properly is how to time physical escalation.

In Japan, there are restaurants with private rooms that nobody can see inside (izakayas), so you can toss logistics right out the door and get blown or even have sex with a girl while you're still in the restaurant. Recently, I been having sex in public like this about 2-4 times a month, just got another one last night actually ~

Maybe I'll write it up for you guys someday if you're interested in hearing about it, don't want to anger Marcus Mansonius the god of Practical Pickup.

Haha, nice! We have these things in Korea called Nori Bangs, which is like a private Kereoke room. Never fucked in one, but it did occur to me the other day that it would behoove me to arrange my dates so they end one for the sake of being alone with her. Plus you can bring your own booze in, so there ya go.

Fluffy, do you speak Japanese? I wonder if I could pull stuff like that if I would visit Japan for a few weeks.