What's up guys, been skimming the board for about a month and wanted to sign-up and share my first cold approach (day).

How did it go? i was shaking my damn tits off.. ugh

Now, right off the bat i really don't have a problem approaching but the problem i get is once i'm in, i'm like a chihuahua on the inside. Here is this small blonde girl and me "Tarzan", but on the inside i'm shaking like Michael j fox(too soon?).

So, i saw her walk by my store i work at and saw her heading back to where she works. I walk out side and it goes...

Me: Hey... Real quick
Her: Hey
Me: Look, i had to meet you i think your adorable (thanks Rob)
Her: Wow, Thank you (smile)
Me: I introduce myself (with handshake)
Her: She introduces herself

I then preceded to tell her i know we have to go back to work, but then asked her how long she had been working there.

Her: I've been there about two weeks
Me: How you liking it so far?
Her: it's been good and everything is going great, but hey i have a table waiting on me i have to get back in
Me: Ok, cool (handshake again). Was a pleasure meeting you.
Her: Pleasure meeting you as well

Now, i wanted to end it like that for some reason because i know i would see her again. I figured i could play off that or something.. Didn't happen that way. Now she works at a restaurant next to me, in which i went to go refill my drink thinking she had to have left by then. Nope!

For some reason i got like extra nervous this time, feeling like if i did nothing on this interaction i would just ruin a future one. So, when i saw her i opened again immediately. Restaurant was dead and it only made sense.

Me: Hey you, got another table waiting.
Her: (smile)... She then had to answer the phone at her job

So, this other girl there then started talking with me about other things and i chit chatted for a minute and my buddy who works there started talking to me for a bit. I guess another minute or two passes and im free to talk to her again.

Me: Alright missy i'm almost out of time here, but like i said i think your adorable and i want to get to know you.
Her: Well, i actually have a boyfriend. (i know i showed emotion here, albeit slightly.. i think)
Me: That's cool you can text me at 3am when he's not around i'll call then. (playfully)
Her: I can't do that to my boyfriend (smile)

I then told her "well he's a lucky guy and and she seems like a cool person". She then stated i may never know "she could be a psycho" and i told her playfully that she does kinda have that look to her. I told her "I guess i'll see ya around". Chit chatted with the other girl who i think does like me for a minute and left.

So, besides the fact i believe my nervousness may of came across, what else do you guys think? Brutally honest, please.

Also, apologies on it being long and more than few grammar errors.

Sounds good. It is not important how the first approach went only that you did it really. Next step in Daygame: 1-2 min convo, try incorporating cold reads, get a standard way to ask for the number. Don´t forget to dress a bit better then the average guy, this is huge believe me and keep approaching. Once the first approach is down it gets better.

I liked how you took the rejection. It also leaves the opportunity of friendship in the future which is always nice.

I think you did well. If I were on the receiving end of this approach I would be open to talking to you and possibly giving you my number. One thing that did pop out was when you said "alright missy.." Not my favorite choice of words. I get wanting to be playful, but "missy" ugh, why? You also handled the rejection well too. I used to hate it when I was in a relationship and would say so when a guy asked for my number or something and he would respond with "oh I only want to be your friend." Dumb. We know you don't want to be our effing friend; so how you handled it was done nicely so as to not make her feel awkward around you on your next run in. Also, good choice with referring to her as adorable, I think you could use pretty too. Stay away from sexy, hot or cute. I hate being called cute.

Good approach. You handled the adversity well, too. You should be happy with yourself. Solid model to work from in the future. PS, I use 'cute' all the time and have had no problems with it. I think it's my go-to looks compliment.