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Denis Offline
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Foreign accent
Hi,

I have a little question for people who's motherlanguage is other then the language of the country you live in.
For me, my "natural" language is Russian. By now, I've lived for almost 9 years in Belgium and I'm speaking Dutch very fluently. But... I still have a slight Russian accent. Many people notice I wasn't born here fast but can't "categorize" me. Some people like my accent. No one explicitly "hated" my accent.
But still, I wonder, what effect does accent have on picking up?
Yeah, I've heard it makes you kinda exclusive (maybe only if you're a latino or something, but i'm a vanilla face russian), but on the other side, it makes you a "foreign stranger" and on still another side, it brings up the stereotypes of your nation (i'm getting really bored with the Russians & Vodka thing), which can be fun at times.
So what are your experiences and opinions on accents and pickup?

Denis

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05-12-2011 12:43 PM
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RE: Foreign accent
DOES NOT MATTER! As long as your accent doesn't hinder their understanding, you are fine. I can say that, because I have an accent and I've still gotten attraction from the hottest of the hot girls. (Just haven't closed Sad).
05-12-2011 12:46 PM
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RE: Foreign accent
As long as you're fluent and can be understood, then it's no effect... in some places accents are considered very attractive. In others they're neutral and/or slight negatives. Either way, they shouldn't make much of a difference...

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RE: Foreign accent
Kiwi accent in the USA= Gold. I had a stripper open me last night because she could tell I was foreign.

Accents can be a negative occasionally; see Mark's post on the thread about racial stereotyping, but I think overall it's a big advantage if you just don't do anything stupid to undermine it's power. The biggest thing is that it can help create a sense of mystery that can create a lot of attraction. The only way to destroy that is to actively work against that perception, for example by going in with a whole bunch of interview questions that make you look boring.

Try to get away with saying less, it's more powerful.
05-15-2011 03:09 AM
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