So, I had my first insta-date ever. I have been in the game off and on for 3 years now. Moving to a big city was the best decision I made. It has made my commute way longer, but it gives me so many more opportunities.

The background - based on a thread in the forums on the best blogs, I visited krauser pua's blog. I read a few posts there and in a few other related blogs. I had the instant realization that I am complimenting too much - this comes off as disingenuous. Actually, it is because I am afraid that the girl will leave me aka needy. I decided to implement a more push-pull approach to my game. Also, I decided to make more assumptive statements instead of questions in the initial minutes of the interaction. After the initial compliment (direct opener), I immediately teased. The tease was framed so as to force them to qualify. For example, "You have a really confident walk, so I had to come say hi". Then, I said, "You don't look like a city-dweller". She said, "No, I live in the city". I said, "You look like a fake city-dweller to me. I am on a mission to exterminate fake city-dwellers". She qualified more, "No, no.. I really live in the city". Blah, blah...

These two changes helped me get two solid interactions in today. I #-closed a college girl after about 15-20 minutes of chit-chat. I insta-dated a german girl who was in the city to study English. I am going to post that interaction separately because I need some feedback.

I don´t like that really. First you say, that she walks confindently, then you say that she does not look like a city dweller. This is not very congruent imo and the dweller statement sounds pretty much like a routine.
What I say often is: "You dont look like you are from ..." - "Why that?" - " Because people from here are tend to be kinda cold and boring. But you look like you are openminded and a fun person..." This is also a routine of mine, but it does not sound like one, because it seems like I am talking about her INDIVIDUALLY. I like it because is combines a qualification statement (that she is openminded and a fun person, so its more likely she will not reject you) plus a little bit of cold reading. I suggest though to say this after a few minutes of smalltalk, because it more it is more believable than to say it right after the opener.

Congratulations on your NC and instadate though!