Joined: Apr 2011
Advice for newbies on how to get laid
Newbies are usually plague with a shitload of limiting belief and social anxiety.
Game is not learn on the internet, but rather learn in real life. There are several "rules" for self improvement.
Anytime you're not pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, you're not learn shit.
The first 500-1000 direct approaches should NOT be done with alcohol. You EARN your right to use alcohol once you get your social anxiety down to almost a minimum.
Here's how you found out how well your social anxiety is toward women. If you hit on a really hot girl and you felt completely relax and at ease without the need of alcohol, then your social anxiety is pretty low.
A typical newbies, especially if your social anxiety is pretty bad, you should aim to hit on 30-40 girls PER DAY when doing day game/night game. It is by far the most efficient way to get over your social anxiety.
Once your skills are strong enough that you can get her to invest half an hour talking to you, then you dont need to hit on that much girls anymore.
There's this type of arrogance in the community that if your game is tight enough, you can choose a hot girl to pickup.
That is definitely NOT true for beginner and intermediate players. If you hit on a group of girls, be friendly toward ALL of them and pick the one THAT PICK YOU. Dont let your arrogant stop you from getting laid.
Until you can consistently fuck girls who wants to fuck you, you should not try to fuck girls who doesnt want to fuck you.
Free association is the best way to talk to girls. Dont just go in gun blasting bullshit routines or technique. You look fricking weird and it will blow you out of sets. The most important thing while talking to girls is being IN CONTEXT. When you talk out of context, you just look try hard.
There's of course more advices, but these simple advice above should get ANYONE laid assume they put in the work.
|05-05-2011 08:58 PM