So, I'm doing only Clubgame/Nightgame, I tried Daygame but didn't like it. Reasons:

Pro Clubgame:
- You can be sexual from the beginning
- Many girls go out specifically to meet boys
- Plenty of hot girls
- You can make out or even have sex with the girl you meet
- I'm at clubs/parties anyway, having fun with my mates

Contra Daygame:
- Only phonenumbers, you have to add the sexual element later
- Walking around in the city is boring
- Less hot girls
- I always feel kinda weird. Some people call daygame 'panhandling for sex'. But maybe thats my personal limiting belief and not a disadvantage of daygame itself...

your opinions?

I don't really think it's a one vs. the other kinda thing.

All of the points you made are valid, and doing cold approaches during the day is definitely more challenging. I just don't know if I could live with myself if I let too many hot girls go by without approaching them just because I'd have to work a little harder for it..

I find it a bit creepy when community guys "go out to daygame" by stalking a supermarket/cafe/bookstore or wherever to try to pick up girls day in and day out - however, I figure I walk by 3-5 hot girls in the course of a given day without setting out to change my routine. Also, there's another advantage to day game. As you said, it's more about numbers. However, club game has weird logistical shit that happens. The friends might cock-block, other guys might come in, she might be staying with friends, somebody could spill a drink on her, etc. Not that this is some huge problem with club game, it's just what you have to deal with. That said, being able to talk for 5 minutes and then set up a date means that after those first five minutes, you are playing on home turf - pick a good venue for a date, pick a time with no weird logistics for her, etc. Much easier to ensure good logistics on a date than attempting a same night pull.

Once your social anxiety is gone and your escalation skills are tight, you should be focusing on "day game".

My definition of day game is living your life around people. Let's just say you're going to school and studying for an exam. Since your social anxiety is non-existence(which would happen if people actually study pickup the right way and do the first 500-1000 direct approaches without alcohol), you can naturally start flirting with the cute girl sitting next to you.

I call it, two bird with one stone day game. You're doing stuff that you find fun and you just happen to meet a girl you like.

(05-05-2011 09:27 AM)Brian Wrote:  Once your social anxiety is gone and your escalation skills are tight, you should be focusing on "day game".

Or, maybe, people can just do what they like and pick up girls at bars if they want to. Crazy, right?

What else can you do at bars beside get drunk and pickup girls?

Yes, you can go there but the bad part is that if you dont happen to pickup a girl that night, then you're essentially wasting your time.

However, if you dont happen to pickup a girl at a library in your school, at least you still gets your studying done.

The beauty about trying to aim for two birds with one stone is that at least one of the bird will always get hit and you always win.

Uh, hang out with friends, dance, listen to music. People go to bars for all sorts of reasons. Some people even go there who don't want to pick up girls.

(05-05-2011 01:29 PM)Jon Wrote:  Uh, hang out with friends, dance, listen to music. People go to bars for all sorts of reasons. Some people even go there who don't want to pick up girls.

Ahahah, doesn't it feel really stupid to have to explain this to someone.

(05-05-2011 03:33 PM)gold panda Wrote:  

(05-05-2011 01:29 PM)Jon Wrote:  Uh, hang out with friends, dance, listen to music. People go to bars for all sorts of reasons. Some people even go there who don't want to pick up girls.

Ahahah, doesn't it feel really stupid to have to explain this to someone.

Honestly, anyone with any level of experience here could tell you're a fricking newbie. Go out and get some lay first before you talk shit.

Approaching those women you're meeting anyway during your work day / everyday life is a good idea.
This whole street game thing ... I don't know, it feels kinda creepy to approach a woman and leave the impression that you just accidentally ran into her while you were shopping or sth when actually you were stalking the city for girls...

(05-05-2011 06:40 AM)DaveyDrama Wrote:  I don't really think it's a one vs. the other kinda thing.

each side has its pros and cons, thats why we're here to discuss

(05-05-2011 09:27 AM)Brian Wrote:  Once your social anxiety is gone and your escalation skills are tight, you should be focusing on "day game".
[...] Since your social anxiety is non-existence(which would happen if people actually study pickup the right way and do the first 500-1000 direct approaches without alcohol),[...]

(05-05-2011 01:18 PM)Brian Wrote:  What else can you do at bars beside get drunk and pickup girls?

Yes, you can go there but the bad part is that if you dont happen to pickup a girl that night, then you're essentially wasting your time.[...]

(05-05-2011 07:53 PM)Brian Wrote:  Honestly, anyone with any level of experience here could tell you're a fricking newbie. Go out and get some lay first before you talk shit.