(05-03-2011 09:50 AM)gold panda Wrote:  

(05-03-2011 04:36 AM)Brian Wrote:  You can start easy and get drunk to do it but you are wasting your time. The primary goal of going out is to learn game. You get laid is a by product of learning game. Stop thinking of short term satisfaction and work on long term growth.

BALONY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is nothing to LEARN. There is NO GAME. Its all NUMBERS GAME.

Maybe read a few of entropy's recent blog posts. Or read 60 years of challenge, perhaps Rob Judge, or Aaron sleazy. if you are so inclined to follow gurus blindly.

All that needs to be done is dealing with your anxieties (opening, escalate). Going up and saying "Hi" is the difficult part. After that its pretty much random.

I have read entropy blog and one of the three fundamental is...getting rid of your anxiety.

How do you intend to get rid of it if you keep relying on alcohol? Approaching with alcohol means your social anxiety will still be presence even if you do thousands of approaches(i have real life examples of this). On the other hand, 300-500 approaches without alcohol will completely annihilate anxiety.

Jesus, the amount of newbies in this forum making stupid remarks is abstounding.

Opening is the easiest part -- especially in daygame.

(05-03-2011 12:18 PM)Brian Wrote:  

(05-03-2011 09:50 AM)gold panda Wrote:  

(05-03-2011 04:36 AM)Brian Wrote:  You can start easy and get drunk to do it but you are wasting your time. The primary goal of going out is to learn game. You get laid is a by product of learning game. Stop thinking of short term satisfaction and work on long term growth.

BALONY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is nothing to LEARN. There is NO GAME. Its all NUMBERS GAME.

Maybe read a few of entropy's recent blog posts. Or read 60 years of challenge, perhaps Rob Judge, or Aaron sleazy. if you are so inclined to follow gurus blindly.

All that needs to be done is dealing with your anxieties (opening, escalate). Going up and saying "Hi" is the difficult part. After that its pretty much random.

I have read entropy blog and one of the three fundamental is...getting rid of your anxiety.

How do you intend to get rid of it if you keep relying on alcohol? Approaching with alcohol means your social anxiety will still be presence even if you do thousands of approaches(i have real life examples of this). On the other hand, 300-500 approaches without alcohol will completely annihilate anxiety.

Jesus, the amount of newbies in this forum making stupid remarks is abstounding.

Virgin nerd trying to give advice to others about picking up women.

Straw man! You were talking about learning game not getting rid of AA in your post, so I addressed it as such.

PS. You never get RID of AA, you just learn to deal with it. If having one or 2 drinks loosens you up than by all means do it. Obviously dont get sloppy ass drunk. Most normal people that you see out at the bars and clubs have a few drinks to loosen up, why not do the same. Also stop with this stupidity about learning how to "game" and you have to learn it properly by being sober and approaching 5 billion women and all that crap.

You sound like Dream. You know who Dream is? Hes the gigantic failure that runs the 21 convention. He did 3000 approaches and got laid a grand total of.....3 times! You sound like this loser.

(05-03-2011 11:36 AM)DaveyDrama Wrote:  

(05-03-2011 09:50 AM)gold panda Wrote:  

(05-03-2011 04:36 AM)Brian Wrote:  You can start easy and get drunk to do it but you are wasting your time. The primary goal of going out is to learn game. You get laid is a by product of learning game. Stop thinking of short term satisfaction and work on long term growth.

All that needs to be done is dealing with your anxieties (opening, escalate). Going up and saying "Hi" is the difficult part. After that its pretty much random.

I disagree wholeheartedly with the last sentence. You still have to know positive/confident body language and how to flirt and initiate a good conversation. Saying "Hi" might be the difficult part, but it's everything after that point that's important.

Knowing how to flirt and have decent conversation I agree with. You dont have to analyze someones body langauge unless you are on the autistic spectrum. You will know quite intuitavely if shes into you or not.

Just do it! Dont think too much!

(05-03-2011 04:36 AM)Brian Wrote:  You can start easy and get drunk to do it but you are wasting your time. The primary goal of going out is to learn game. You get laid is a by product of learning game. Stop thinking of short term satisfaction and work on long term growth.

(05-03-2011 09:50 AM)gold panda Wrote:  There is nothing to LEARN. There is NO GAME. Its all NUMBERS GAME.

I wouldn't put it to that extreme either

(05-03-2011 03:01 PM)gold panda Wrote:  PS. You never get RID of AA, you just learn to deal with it. If having one or 2 drinks loosens you up than by all means do it. Obviously dont get sloppy ass drunk. Most normal people that you see out at the bars and clubs have a few drinks to loosen up, why not do the same. Also stop with this stupidity about learning how to "game" and you have to learn it properly by being sober and approaching 5 billion women and all that crap.

+1

(05-03-2011 03:05 PM)gold panda Wrote:  Knowing how to flirt and have decent conversation I agree with. You dont have to analyze someones body langauge unless you are on the autistic spectrum. You will know quite intuitavely if shes into you or not.

I don't mean analyzing her body language, I mean displaying confident body language yourself.