Maybe this is a silly question but I've thought about it a lot. IMO a lot of people don't want to show vulnerability because they don't want to get hurt or they don't know exatly how the other person feel about you. I've even read that you have to wait for the another person to say I love you and then if you are interested you can show your love for her. It seems like a contest but at the same time I understand why people are so afraid to show their emotions. Do you have any rule about when you can become vulnerable with a girl, when can you show your love for her?

Say it when you feel it... but be sure it's love and not infatuation.

When it comes to relationships, most rules don't pan out well too well.

(04-08-2011 03:19 PM)Mark Wrote:  Say it when you feel it... but be sure it's love and not infatuation.

I said it when I felt it and she got scared, but she came back. I've been working on her slowly now.

How do you know if it is Love and not infatuation?

You think if I say I love you early on I can look like a wuss?

Wussiness doesn't come from what you do, it comes from why you do it. If it was genuine and not done out of desperation, then there's nothing wrong with it.

Just know what you're getting yourself into...