Hi,

a Fb of mine moved to another city. She comes home every once in a while.
So i was wondering how i keep her attracted to me, so that we can continue the affair when she is home
Should i just send her random sms once every few weeks?

What was your relationship like up until now? Personally I'd text more than once every few weeks, anyway.

Do you ever do some form of phone sex or sexting or cam sex or anything like that? Those things can be hot and can be done at any distance.

Well we met and had sex a few times ... Not much contact aside from that ^^

I have never tried any of that stuff... so i dont know if i would feel comfortable doing it

Have you ever tried David Shade's Hot Phone Sex program? You can actually hear real conversations between him and women, and you'll get an idea of what kind of dirty talk can work. Although you might be shocked the first time you hear it.

These things work best if you know what her turn-ons are. Maybe she likes to be submissive, or she's a bit of a exhibitionist, or has a secret fantasy of doing things with a girl. If you know, you can play on it.

As for camming. Do you ever talk on skype or msn? If so, next time you do it, simply click on the video conversation button. If she accepts, great. Then, at some point you can tell her she looks hot. Hopefully she responds well. You can slowly escalate things by saying what you would do if you were right there with her. For example, that you would lightly touch the back of her neck, then grab her hair and kiss her in the neck. If she responds positively, escalate further. Once she's horny, ask her to show a little more of herself. You might not see all the first time, because it's outside of her comfort zone as well, but since you've already had sex a few times you have a pretty good shot.

Btw, my advice might be completely inappropriate in your situation. I'm just going from my experience, and I'm a pervert.

So in the program you listen to a guy having phone sex?

How would you start sexting?

(04-15-2011 03:29 AM)Lycan Wrote:  So in the program you listen to a guy having phone sex?

Yes, that's exactly what you hear. And he's not shy about it.

(04-15-2011 03:29 AM)Lycan Wrote:  How would you start sexting?

There is one girl that I have sexted a lot with. The problem with sexting is that you don't see her, you don't get immediate feedback, and you can't be sure what she's doing and how she's feeling now. So your best bet is to sext her when she's just texted you with something indicating that she's "receptive" to sexting. The girl I sext (that IS a funny word) with most sometimes makes it clear that she's horny or in some way thinking about sex or about me. From there, I can just launch into a fantasy that I know she will like.

Basically, you just present her with a fantasy. If you write a fantasy, focus on small details to make it seem real in her mind. Build tension, tease her by waiting just a bit to long with giving her what she wants to happen. Like, you don't say "I'd lick your pussy and then we'd fuck and we'd both really enjoy it." Edit: I think you can get inspiration for sexting too from the Hot Phone Sex product.

I tried to write an example text but SHIT I write long texts. It turns into an erotic novel if I try to write a proper sext. I'll think on it some more.