Race definitely play a role. Back when i live in the eastcoast, there are certain places where i go, i definitely detect a very strong racial bias against asian. One time, a white girl even straightup told her friend she will not fuck me because i am asian.

Overall, if you want to date interacially, you're better off living in a place that has more of the people of your race...especially if those people are successful.

For example, in southern california, there are many asian who are millionaires so they get a whole lot more respect as a whole by other races.

Asian guys and black guys should not be gaming like white guys. It's different. You have to cater to your racial stereotypes and recognize that you're going to have more polarizing responses.

It's not better/worse or harder/easier, just different. Like I said, an Asian guy who knows how to use his race to his advantage can kill it. I've seen it.

(04-30-2011 01:20 AM)Mark Wrote:  Asian guys and black guys should not be gaming like white guys. It's different. You have to cater to your racial stereotypes and recognize that you're going to have more polarizing responses.

It's not better/worse or harder/easier, just different. Like I said, an Asian guy who knows how to use his race to his advantage can kill it. I've seen it.

I'm just curious, what are some of the advantages that they have as opposed to white guys?
And what are some of the advantages that white guys have etc...?

I think assanova once said in his blog that hotness makes women colour blind. So I'm guessing if you're extremely good looking and have great style your race won't matter?

Hotness is so subjective with women though.

I've been meaning to write a post on race forever. Maybe I'll do it soon.

(04-28-2011 10:49 PM)Mark Wrote:  It's not about freaking out or being composed. It's WHY you're freaking out or are composed.

Are you being composed because you want to impress the girls around you?
Are you freaking out because you feel like something legitimately violates your values?

Hey can you please explain this method when you ask yourself why you did something to figure out what you subcommunicated by that action.

It seems to me that for almost any action we do during pickup the answer to "WHY" can be "to impress girls". So is that bad?

(04-13-2011 08:48 PM)Frozen Flame Wrote:  

(04-13-2011 01:28 AM)Mark Wrote:  I've heard black and Latin guys kill it in the Scandanavian countries.

Likewise, blond hair blue eyed guys do well in Latin America.

Yeah that's true, just because they stand out...

I have my doubt about that.

For women, the most important trait that makes a man attractive, is height.

Now let's have a look at the average height of young males (according to Wiki):

Northern Europe (Sweden, Norway, Germany, Netherlands): 5 ft 11 1/2 in - 6 ft 0 1/2 in

English-speaking countries (US, UK, Australia): 5 ft 10 in

Southern Europe (Spain, Greece): 5 ft 10 in

Latin America (Brazil, Colombia): 5 ft 7 in - 5 ft 8 in

Africa (Arabic part, like Egypt, and Sub-Sahara, like Cote d'ivoire, Ghana): 5 ft 7 in

Everybody who has first-hand experience can tell you that a 5 ft 10 in guy is a no-go for the majority of girls in countries like Sweden or Norway. So what do you think, how might a "typical" 5 ft 7 in guy from Colombia, Cote d'Ivoire or Egypt do in Scandinavia?

dude if height was the most important thing, I'd be getting laid with 2 new girls every week, and probably wouldn't even be on this forum...

In my case, in school it was always some short guy that was the most popular (also good looking)

I don't know why are people making such a big deal of it... and plus, I can find hundred bad things what come with being tall.

http://www.zimbio.com/pictures/4y-ODraW1...8Vx3cfloby
To all Asians, this is Anthony Kim a pro golfer, I think the only reason he gets hot white women is because he is young, rich and an athlete but at least you can look up to the guy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gP3BOpV-j...re=related


What do you guys think?
I can't tell if the guy is a good-looking guy in general and by Asian standards, i don't think he is IMO but again he gets lots of tail by being a rich athlete. At least Asian guys get pussy, I haven't seen any brown guys yet.

(04-30-2011 08:09 AM)jcxky Wrote:  At least Asian guys get pussy, I haven't seen any brown guys yet.

Salman Rushdie. Short, fat, bald, old, left his model wife and found a younger model to date, while also being seen iwth Olivia Wilde.

Salman Rushdie is the world's greatest player. Period.

Edit: Oh, and Scarlett Johansen.