P.S. Not bashing being an idiot either. Immaturity definitely has it's place too Nobody wants to be with somebody that takes themselves TOO seriously.

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Best locations...for you, I would say college campus, lol. Try your quad, or the library, or a cafeteria, or a coffee house. These are always great locations. If that doesn't work, try a shopping mall, a park, or just on the street. Girls are everywhere!

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Hahah i just realized how vague i was. I actually meant during summer vacation while your away from all that. In college its actually really simple to talk to girls in the day, but i find it easier to meet them out at night and solidify our connection in the day.


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Coffee shops, malls, stores, library, gym, on the street, join a summer softball or volleyball league, go running in the park, go to the beach if there's one by you, our campus had a really nice pool area where a bunch of people hung out over summer break. There's really no trick to it - just sit down for 5-10 minutes and think - you'll figure it out.

(04-11-2011 04:33 AM)Mark Wrote:  And they don't ever play games.

Correct. That's the case because day game is all about getting to know each other in a genuine and natural way. It's the very opposite of flash game.

I find it healthy that things like "social status in nightlife", "social proof", alcohol, validation seeking, distractions, amogs/cockblockers, loud noise etc. don't exist in day game.

Conversational skills, social intelligence, and your individual personality play a much bigger role in daygame. That's one one the many reasons why I prefer it.

(05-05-2011 07:31 PM)General G Wrote:  

(04-11-2011 04:33 AM)Mark Wrote:  And they don't ever play games.

Correct. That's the case because day game is all about getting to know each other in a genuine and natural way. It's the very opposite of flash game.

I find it healthy that things like "social status in nightlife", "social proof", alcohol, validation seeking, distractions, amogs/cockblockers, loud noise etc. don't exist in day game.

Conversational skills, social intelligence, and your individual personality play a much bigger role in daygame. That's one one the many reasons why I prefer it.

That's also one of the reasons, that I prefer day game. But I think that this goes for every place where the environment isn't superloud and distracting.

I did one of my first sets in that environment (at night) and I went super direct, and she loved it. Besides those places are much easier to show off your confidence and true personality. So if you're looking for a girlfriend, you know where to go.

I also feel much more comfortable gaming in that environment.

Hey thnx guys all great advice!