"What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say" -Ralph Waldo Emerson

The quote above is a very powerful one. I often apply this to women and their actions but it can be applied to basically any facet of life. The point is what many people often forget to take into account is how easy it is for people to sit across from you and talk and talk and talk about what they are going to do. For example the overweight women or man who always says their diet starts tomorrow, or I'm going to lose so much weight this year ... all of this while they are hammering down a plate of fried chicken wings. I can sit here and type out to you that I am going to do so many things in the next week or month but it doesn't mean a thing until I actually go out and do it.

This same concept can be applied to the pick up community. You can talk and talk and talk about how your going to get so many women, have so many girlfriends, be a player, or any number of things. Quite frankly in my experience the people that actually accomplish these things you would never even know unless you asked them a direct question about it. They don't talk about it, they just go out and do it.

Thoughts, comments, concerns are welcome.

Love Emerson. Love that quote. Hadn't heard it before.

It goes both ways too. I get guys coming to me all the time, "She said this, then she said this, then she said this and this... what does that mean?"

And my response is usually, "Well, what did she DO?"

Emerson's right. People usually say "Actions speak louder than words." When it comes to this stuff, there might as well not even be words half the time.

I know what you mean
I used to do that too, giving myself weird conditions before starting something, like i will begin with PU once I have a new haircut ... or I will start excercising once I moved.
In reality those are just excuses
There is no right time to start for anything. The right time is always now

Reminds me of one of the things I love about girls:
You can walk up to them, have some chat and shoot the shit and she is cold as ice. You keep talking, she stands there. It slowly dawns on you that although she is giving off all kinds of 'fuck-offs' she is rock steady and not moving an inch. Your in.
I mentioned this little beautiful trait to a female friend of mine and she nearly jumped out her chair. She recognised it immediately as something she did all the time. Wonderful.

Also best advice Ive heard someone give a girl on guys in general: "Dont listen to what they say, watch what they DO".
I think about that one a lot. I occasionally put myself under that kind of observation and its scary/enlightening. Fitting advice for an internet forum I think.

It's easy to sometimes hear what you want to hear from people. Words can make someone feel good or special but it's all about to quote another love doctor the "bottom line factor".

Someone could be complimenting you, telling you how great you are and at the same time beating you senseless over the head with a crow bar. What is the bottom line factor in this situation? Your getting your ass beat. Some guys ignore the ass beating just to hear what they want to hear. You can't ignore the reality of the situation. Actions mean a lot more then empty words.

I love that quote! Thanks for sharing.

In long-term 'game' words are meaningless..... or at the very least nothing more than 5% of the total input to your world.

Communication skills?.... thats slightly different...