Hey Mark man, I'm a high school pua, big fan of your stuff and got man on campus a little while back. I liked the concepts but I got a year left of high school and I feel like applications gotta be a little different since in college you have the luxury to meet unlimited amounts of people, especially at a school like BU, but at high school your stuck with the same group of kids. I only have a few months of school left(my school goes into July) so I was wondering if you had any words of wisdom for me. Also I was wondering whether its realistically possible to sniper out some girls and hookup out of the blue, say some random girl in the hallway from any grade. For social stuff I mostly do your program, Conquer your campus and some christian hudson/nick sparks stuff, but I also got a pretty strong grasp of magic bullets and Double your dating so idk lol. But I'd appreciate some advice on high school, and then some college stuff since I'm going there pretty soon. Thanks a lot Mark!

Hey, I only have a few comments:

1) I was absolutely horrible with girls in high school and never got laid and didn't even make out with a girl until the end of my senior year. So I'm not exactly the guy to be asking. Not to mention, at this point it was a long time ago (fuck, I'm getting old).

2) You're still young and you're still developing in a lot of ways emotionally and socially. I'd be very careful with this stuff and take it all as suggestions rather than doctrine. Over the years, I've seen guys get into this stuff way too young and get kind of screwed up by it. I'd hate to see that happen to you.

3) This probably isn't what you want to hear, but I think it's the best advice I can give: I'd recommend focusing on enjoying your senior year and being as social as humanly possible. High school is SOOOO social circle oriented, that you shouldn't even think about gaming too much, just focus on hanging out with as many people as possible and making it as fun as possible. Opportunities will absolutely come from doing that. Just be ready for them.

4) College is MASSIVELY different from high school. And that's a good thing. So much is going to change for you over the next few years. You have soooo much time and opportunity in front of you. I know it may be frustrating to not get results NOW, but be patient.

Sorry I can't give you more specific advice. Maybe someone else around here is young and can offer their experience.

Great time, What women want in that age is maturity, I mean Sexual Maturity... When I was in High School alot of girls dated way older guys and fucked them...

Start noticing these guys not the Boyfriends but the older guys they sneak off with and talk to, brag about. These guys they are fucking.

The Boyfriends and High School Sweethearts are really for sluts that have been did over by the older guys and there buddies. Dont be a pick up the pieces guy.

You have to be the kind of guy thats not afraid to want to fuck a girl and tell them that. This works best.

Walk straight, deepen your voice. Act Aplha, In a nutshell read a book by Cindy Meston " Why women Have Sex" Get familiar with Johnny Soporno and Steve Deamore AKA Steve Piccus. Get familiar with Some of Mark Cunninghams Lectures (Especially His Bondage and BDSM) and stuff and Ross Jeffries OLD SS stuff Like Jersey 1995, DC 2000, La 99 Vids.

Get book on releasing limiting beliefs. Hypnotherapy, Counseling..

ITs all about ridding yourself of your childhood conformist identity and "Growing up" Faster than you Peers...

The old ways of manner is no longer necessary...

All this comes down to is women are hardwired for a primal man, a man thats not afraid to say I wanna fuck, or your hot or I love you. I am in charge, I know what I want . I HAVE GOOD Genes!!! Yet I am a stable person and a bit of a bad boy.

Theres no real boundary like College or High School or age.

stay awat from Fat Chicks and mediocre chics, they are poison.

You'll get it. and learn everything about female orgasms. Get seen with other chicks and getting value.

Have fun

MArk

P.S. Stop !! Being afraid To Make Mistakes... Alot of times they really arent.

Always A;ways take notes NOT ON TECHNIQUES BUT HOW YOU FEEL INSIDE AND ANY LIMITING BELIEFS OR DISCOVERIES YOU COME ACROSS!!!

Always keep a journal of how you feel after a sarge session... Even if you chicked out or didnt do shot or you did regardless of outcome..

You will see patterns.... Be aware of them.

I any Girl tells you different or puts you down about this stuff or you behavior, DO NOT LISTEN!! Either there ugly or have Self Esteem issues and wish they were good enough for you. Most of the time its a Frame shittest

(04-08-2011 09:23 AM)Mark Wrote:  Hey, I only have a few comments:

1) I was absolutely horrible with girls in high school and never got laid and didn't even make out with a girl until the end of my senior year. So I'm not exactly the guy to be asking. Not to mention, at this point it was a long time ago (fuck, I'm getting old).

2) You're still young and you're still developing in a lot of ways emotionally and socially. I'd be very careful with this stuff and take it all as suggestions rather than doctrine. Over the years, I've seen guys get into this stuff way too young and get kind of screwed up by it. I'd hate to see that happen to you.

3) I'd recommend focusing on enjoying your senior year and being as social as humanly possible. High school is SOOOO social circle oriented, that you shouldn't even think about gaming too much, just focus on hanging out with as many people as possible and making it as fun as possible. Opportunities will absolutely come from doing that. Just be ready for them.

4) College is MASSIVELY different from high school. And that's a good thing.

Sorry I can't give you more specific advice. Maybe someone else around here is young and can offer their experience.

If you don't mind me asking:


What is it you hope to get out of all of this?

I was also shitty with girls in high school, but here's a few things I did, or wish I did, that will massively up your success later on.

1) Get in shape! You will never have an easier time getting fit than now, both because you have more time, you aren't getting drunk (at least as much as you will in the future), and because you are really young and have a great metabolism.

2) Learn how to buy/wear clothes. There are fashion basics, learn them. Make sure your clothes fit properly, learn what colors you should buy. Esquire has a great style guide.

3) make female friends. You will understand girls much better and be able to relate to them. You will know what girls find interesting and you will end up getting common interests with them.

4) learn to cook a few things. Girls love that shit

@ Zac

well I' just trying to build a good/cool lifestyle at the end of all of this. I was always the way too nice guy before I learned this stuff and never got any of the ladies or cooler guys to respect me on the level where say Mark prolly was in college. Like before I started this stuff, I pretty much had girls think I'm gay but still like me, had either guy friends that were either chill or had alot of guys envious and tried to dlv me(pretty much talk shit) since I was like the only guy with the balls to actually talk to the girls. And then boy, midway through sophomore year I just got this huge sexual drive(prolly from track and working out a lot haha) and then just started feeling like getting it on haha. Oh and my school is pretty cliquey and segregated to like theatre/artsy kinda kids and then the athletes. I'm with the more artsy people despite being a varsity track guy and pretty much had the football players talk a tonnn of shitt frosh/soph year cause I hung out with a lot of girls and didn't have as many guy friends haha. But now its senior year, where all my friends are consolidated, but there are just way too many good looking girls that I just want into my life to share experiences/happiness and stuff with haha.

Sounds lame I know, but I really want to get a lot of good people out of my life pretty much

@mrboxingfan

ya man I totally agree with your post and I really just don't give a fuck about anything haha. I use a lot of the techniques that mark likes, such as a lot of qualification, tease a lott and don't give them a break, touch a lot etc.
Pretty much the main problem I'm getting is that football's huge at my school, the football players don't like me for some reason haha, and that puts off a bunch of girls who want to be funneled into our "football-slut" system. But ya only a couple of months till college and shit gets waay easier there(I atleast hope it will haha) and so it aint a big deal

Oh and thanks to Mark and Jon for your responses!

Hey man, you're in high school. HIGH SCHOOL. Do you know how ridiculous a "High School Pua" sounds? Everyone is supposed to be awkward. Everything you say or do will spread like wildfire. So relax. Your status is much more important.
You say you're in theatre? Excellent. Do improv / say funny shit / practice body language / work on your voice tonality. Then head over to after school painting class. Flirt. Do a portrait of some cute artsy girl. But make it a stick figure. Say I worked very hard on this portrait I hope you like it. Then show it to her. When's prom, July? Ask her out to prom. That night, as the lights dim, you grab her hand and lead her to the floor. But its dark so you poke her eye instead. You laugh it off. You grab her hips and she wraps her arms around your neck. You two lock eyes, as the fruit punch she spilled on her hands moments ago stick to the hairs on the back of your neck. You pretend not to notice, so you make a really queer face. You feel like this the time to kiss her but her breath reeks of fish cause Mr. Robinson's has a fishing boat by the lake and he's caught a large one this year so he's taken the pleasure to cook the senior class a big fucking fish for dinner. So you kiss her eye instead, which is swollen now, as you two sway to the tune of One Less Lonely Girl by Justin Bieber.

Embrace the awkwardness.

also, lol @ the guy who suggested BDSM

Thats Great but listen,In reality there are no friends in High School just Enemies and Enemies you keep closer, everyone is out for themselves and the girls are out for serious you know what. Stop being afraid of the football team like they are some evil regime. bang a few of there G/fs on the under. Remember this. I did this in my teen years but didnt recognize it till I went to a PUA seminar in Bangkok 3 years ago.

Everybody got laid Bangkok whores, Tourist, Dutch College students all but me.My mistake was I wnt out with some PSuedo PUA AFC's that ruined my nights. So I got pissed and went on myself. There was this really top notch Russian lady, Rich one I might add that was a perfect 10, Super High Value the works. No one would talk to her, A fuckin seminar and no one would talk to her, go figure. So the last day was sunday and I head out Monday morning. I Run inot her and we end up going on a Date on the Spot.

We close and she freaks out during a run of the Bases. It turns out she was a Rape victim 3 years ago and cannot trust men, I understood we put our clothes back one and went our separate ways. We stayed and talked for a while and then moved on and I Flew home the following day.

The moral of the story is anytime you go through this shit your going through in High School, The answer is find a hotter more valuable chic. Figure out who is the most hottest most cant get in the sack girl in school and fuck her.

Your life will change...for the better, stop messing with these undercalss people and be more arrogant around the jocks, this will blow your mind... try amogging them.

(04-08-2011 11:10 AM)SSatish12 Wrote:  @ Zac

well I' just trying to build a good/cool lifestyle at the end of all of this. I was always the way too nice guy before I learned this stuff and never got any of the ladies or cooler guys to respect me on the level where say Mark prolly was in college. Like before I started this stuff, I pretty much had girls think I'm gay but still like me, had either guy friends that were either chill or had alot of guys envious and tried to dlv me(pretty much talk shit) since I was like the only guy with the balls to actually talk to the girls. And then boy, midway through sophomore year I just got this huge sexual drive(prolly from track and working out a lot haha) and then just started feeling like getting it on haha. Oh and my school is pretty cliquey and segregated to like theatre/artsy kinda kids and then the athletes. I'm with the more artsy people despite being a varsity track guy and pretty much had the football players talk a tonnn of shitt frosh/soph year cause I hung out with a lot of girls and didn't have as many guy friends haha. But now its senior year, where all my friends are consolidated, but there are just way too many good looking girls that I just want into my life to share experiences/happiness and stuff with haha.

Sounds lame I know, but I really want to get a lot of good people out of my life pretty much

@mrboxingfan

ya man I totally agree with your post and I really just don't give a fuck about anything haha. I use a lot of the techniques that mark likes, such as a lot of qualification, tease a lott and don't give them a break, touch a lot etc.
Pretty much the main problem I'm getting is that football's huge at my school, the football players don't like me for some reason haha, and that puts off a bunch of girls who want to be funneled into our "football-slut" system. But ya only a couple of months till college and shit gets waay easier there(I atleast hope it will haha) and so it aint a big deal

Oh and thanks to Mark and Jon for your responses!

If there is only one thing learning at high school its value giving. Everyday attempt to give some value to everyone.
People in high school are usually weesh and you can stand out by giving a lot to your interactions.
Basically I mean be interested, congratulate people, tell people they are the shit, etc. No one else does it in a bad ass way. You'll be 1000% cooler than everyone else.
For the time being dont mess with pua tricks as you'll only develop a totally weirdo mind-set by the time you get to college.