What is your thought process when it comes to female bartenders? Most women in the service industry who are making tips can come across as fake. Such professions such as bartenders, waitresses, strippers, and so forth have laser eyes locked onto your wallet.

Just curious if you have any success stories or tips on dealing with these types of women, especially bartenders. I live in a busy downtown area with a ton of attractive bartenders. I am very friendly with some of them but seem to have a hard time escalating to more then a customer-server relationship. In the past I have had no problem getting their phone number but it never really leads to success. Thoughts, Stories, and Advice please. Thanks

Waitresses at restaurants and stuff shouldn't be a problem. Bartenders are a different story. And strippers are in a whole different realm altogether.

Bartenders the most you can hope for is a number and to meet up later. The only way I've seen it actually work is if you become a regular, go in on off nights and get to know her bit by bit over an extended period of time.

Seems like a lot of effort...

Yeah, I don't bother. If you go out enough during the week, you'll meet the same bartenders when they're not working. Much much easier that way. Service industry people are always out on Tues-Thurs.

I currently have a fuckbuddy/casual girlfriend who is a stripper, and I met her while she was working. It's a bar that serves alcohol, and has strippers that only do topless dancing (weird California laws). My drinking buddy and I go there to drink and watch sports and ogle the hoez, but we don't buy lapdances, and we have a reputation for that so the hoez pretty much leave us alone except when they want to chill out and talk.

But this girl in particular basically picked me up. I fit the exact look that she likes, so she basically latched on to me and started asking me all kinds of personal questions. I had to ramp up my asshole & cocky/funny game almost to 10 and it worked like a charm.

I constantly have to game this chick to keep her interested, even though we've been banging for months. But she loves me and can't get enough, even though she ALWAYS shit tests me.

Yeah, I've got a friend who is seeing a stripper and she basically just came over and picked him up. I think the idea of stripper game is a bit over-hyped -- you show up, don't act like a douchebag and hope one of them likes you.

But yeah, every stripper I've gotten with has been SUPER high maintenance.