Sounds pretty twisted to me.

Yeah, honestly it still makes no sense to me. It's like a vegetarian consistently going to a steakhouse to order a steak and then not eat it. At some point it becomes clear he has some issue around meat that he has to prove to himself. Otherwise he wouldn't bother.

Whats the reason you don't have sex? Religion? Just repent bro.

(06-11-2011 11:19 PM)TheBoss Wrote:  Whats the reason you don't have sex? Religion? Just repent bro.

LOL I'm pretty sure it doesn't work like that bud Kind of defeats the purpose haha.

You guys really need to stop putting so much thought into this lol. I don't have sex (with random girls) because I'm a Christian.

I literally just had a conversation about this last night driving home from a party with my buddy and he said to me, "Dude, you know we have similar core beliefs, but I just don't understand how you can NOT have sex with all of these girls."

So I'll put it to you guys like I put it to him:

I just got home to Canada after living in Lebanon for a while. There is not a big police presence in Lebanon, mostly military just to protect the country. When talking about my trip, people ask me, "So if there's pretty much no police, crime must be out of control over there, right?" Wrong. There is hardly any crime. People just don't break the laws very often and they don't really worry about going to jail.

The thing is: Dishonouring God is wayyy worse than going to jail. So people just don't break the law.

Starting to catch on yet?

Not really...

Religious beliefs are fine. What makes no sense is why you go out and consciously pick them up just so you can turn them down later... that's what screams of compulsive behavior, see my steakhouse analogy. Religious beliefs are just whatever...

(06-12-2011 01:42 AM)Mark Wrote:  Not really...

What makes no sense is why you go out and consciously pick them up just so you can turn them down later...

Because - and this may not make sense to you either, Mark - it's not about the sex for me.

Well, that's pretty obvious...

I feel like this topic is never going to get old for you guys lol. But that's okay. Been talking about it for long enough now anyways. I think it actually helps me out mentally when picking up a girl, because - to quote one of the PUA's from The Game - my mentality is, "bitch, I don't NEED what you got"

(06-12-2011 01:17 AM)DaveyDrama Wrote:  

(06-11-2011 11:19 PM)TheBoss Wrote:  Whats the reason you don't have sex? Religion? Just repent bro.

LOL I'm pretty sure it doesn't work like that bud Kind of defeats the purpose haha.

You guys really need to stop putting so much thought into this lol. I don't have sex (with random girls) because I'm a Christian.

I literally just had a conversation about this last night driving home from a party with my buddy and he said to me, "Dude, you know we have similar core beliefs, but I just don't understand how you can NOT have sex with all of these girls."

So I'll put it to you guys like I put it to him:

I just got home to Canada after living in Lebanon for a while. There is not a big police presence in Lebanon, mostly military just to protect the country. When talking about my trip, people ask me, "So if there's pretty much no police, crime must be out of control over there, right?" Wrong. There is hardly any crime. People just don't break the laws very often and they don't really worry about going to jail.

The thing is: Dishonouring God is wayyy worse than going to jail. So people just don't break the law.

Starting to catch on yet?

Well you said that you have done anal sex and went down on a girl. I'm not a religious expert, but isn't that worse? Doesn't the bible suggest NO SEX (or any form of adultery) before marriage, and then its strictly vaginal sex?

Not trying to be a dick just curious lol