I did on saturday 6 direkt on the street. No results, the majority gone after the opening. And yes, i had good clothings, i do not touch them and i had lot of space within us. technical i did everything right, it is my inner game.

After the first 3 directs my mindset swich to indiffrenece. I appraoched without AA. And the set weng worser.

Sorry boys, I try my best. maybee its fail because i do not use the pacing statement

(04-22-2011 09:42 AM)WhiteMonk Wrote:  A good way to eliminate the fake number problem is to have her text you.

Girls these days ALWAYS have their cell phone within reach. When getting her number, I just have her pull it out and text me. Then my phone vibrates and I know it's her.

LOL, when a girl would give you a fake number, she 100% not interested and you will not have any success no matter what.

(05-08-2011 04:21 PM)Freedomone Wrote:  I did on saturday 6 direkt on the street. No results, the majority gone after the opening. And yes, i had good clothings, i do not touch them and i had lot of space within us. technical i did everything right, it is my inner game.

After the first 3 directs my mindset swich to indiffrenece. I appraoched without AA. And the set weng worser.

Sorry boys, I try my best. maybee its fail because i do not use the pacing statement

Freedome, nothing against you personally, but seriously just chill out. Look, you are probably having problems with Daygame because you make a big thing about it. THAT IS THE POINT. Like Mark wrote on the blog, shit test fail to mean very much if you don´t give a fuck about them. The same applies to Daygame. Go direct, be friendly/casual, don´t get to close and go for the number after some light conversation (good convo means: as little questions as possible/ as many statements as possible, try to "cold read", read up on this, very improtant skill to have) If you get blown out: Who cares? If you get a number: Who gives a damn? LOL. Just kidding.

(05-08-2011 07:00 PM)Matt Wrote:  Freedome, nothing against you personally, but seriously just chill out. Look, you are probably having problems with Daygame because you make a big thing about it. THAT IS THE POINT. Like Mark wrote on the blog, shit test fail to mean very much if you don´t give a fuck about them. The same applies to Daygame. Go direct, be friendly/casual, don´t get to close and go for the number after some light conversation (good convo means: as little questions as possible/ as many statements as possible, try to "cold read", read up on this, very improtant skill to have) If you get blown out: Who cares? If you get a number: Who gives a damn? LOL. Just kidding.

Completely agree with Matt. You are way too result oriented with this shit. Keep doing it for 6 months without expectation of outcome and watch your results skyrocket. I think you should completely refrain from analysis. Just go out until rejection means nothing to you. That way you'll stop micro-analyzing every interaction.

Start approaching stationary girls in bookstores, coffee shops, clothing stores, grocery stores, etc. They'll be much easier to open than girls walking down the street.

I still think you're doing something technically wrong that you're just not aware of. Only way guys get blown out repeatedly from day game is if they're doing some totally off/awkward on the approach. My guess is you just aren't aware that you're doing it.

(04-13-2011 01:20 AM)Mark Wrote:  Try it out. In my experience it just makes them uncomfortable.

The thing about day game is that you're not in a bar or club or place where it's deemed "normal" to approach. You approach a girl in a bar, she knows you're hitting on her, she knows what to expect. When you approach her at the supermarket, she has no idea what your deal is -- if you're crazy, if you're a serial killer, if you're going to rape her behind the dumpsters out back, if this is all a joke and there's a camera somewhere.

That's why your success rate is more or less going to be determined 90% by how casual and comfortable you make the interaction for her. And why in my experience any teasing or flirting just sabotages everything.

One quick question.

I do sometime (if it come in mind) funny jokes (not about her).
- Is this good or bad? Do jokes also make her uncomfortable?
- do you know Sean Messenger, how do you like what he say?

(05-08-2011 07:24 PM)Mark Wrote:  Start approaching stationary girls in bookstores, coffee shops, clothing stores, grocery stores, etc. They'll be much easier to open than girls walking down the street.

I still think you're doing something technically wrong that you're just not aware of. Only way guys get blown out repeatedly from day game is if they're doing some totally off/awkward on the approach. My guess is you just aren't aware that you're doing it.

After the first 2-3 Approaches rejections I lose my Approach Adrenalin rush call it AA. Therefor I approach the further girls with less joy and excitement. Maybe this is the reason why after the 3. approach the approaches get worser? But how to change it?

(05-10-2011 12:00 AM)Freedomone Wrote:  I do sometime (if it come in mind) funny jokes (not about her).
- Is this good or bad? Do jokes also make her uncomfortable?

Women oviously hate any sort of humour. They blow you out when you get them to laugh immediately.

Or maybe your jokes are just way too funny if they blow you out.

(05-10-2011 07:06 PM)Extropy Wrote:  

(05-10-2011 12:00 AM)Freedomone Wrote:  I do sometime (if it come in mind) funny jokes (not about her).
- Is this good or bad? Do jokes also make her uncomfortable?

Women oviously hate any sort of humour. They blow you out when you get them to laugh immediately.

Or maybe your jokes are just way too funny if they blow you out.

lol. give the guy a break

lol, after 9 pages of over-analyzing, I think freedomone had it coming.

Hint: the over-analyzing and rejection are not a coincidence.