Maybee Entropy has experienced some of this. I've seen various PUA gurus trying to preach the whole go out and get girls to like you and you can get laid by 5 different women in rotation and they can all know about each other and everyone can live in peace and harmony.

But thats obviously not the case if you pursue this route. Some girls will start drama after they find out and go crazy on you. Some will dump you right away after they find out your seeing other girls. Some will go crazy and come knocking on your door the next week.

Also in social circles its not possible to get laid by several women without drama and some girls hating on you. Some of the ones that hate on you will end up wanting to hook up later. So if you are going to get laid in social circle situations you gotta be able to deal with drama and haters including women and some guys.

Many of these PUA social circle products market ways to get laid by women in social circles and live in one big happy harmony. pff yea right... Social circles by nature are great, but people get off on the drama in them.

Yup. I wrote about this in 2008.

http://www.practicalpickup.com/the-power...ial-circle

Being known as a 'pick-up artist' had advantages as well as disadvantages. On the plus side, some women see you as a safe bet for no-strings hook-up; they know you're not going to harass them at all hours of the day with phone calls or think you're their boyfriend. Some will even see you as a way to explore their sexuality I.e. Lesbian hook-ups.

On the other hand, some will view you as creepy, dishonest or annoying. There's a real danger that you will end up chatting up women at inappropriate times; Paul Janka once tried to chat up a nurse at a Sexual Health Clinic! In my own case, female friends are wary of introducing me to their friends, in case I 'put the moves' on them. It also doesn't help when they warn other women about you!

I thought this too as well a long, long time ago.

The issue with alot of you guys is that you think in this unitlateral limitng frame of " Friends and Social Circles are everything" Alot of people are Herdmongers and do not know how to be successfully independent and " Hunt and GAther on your own"

It's the old Follower mentality,its a limiting belief that limits your potential with the women you want.

Thats the down side of the PUA and the uside of the speed seducers

Yes all the systems and relationship management systems work it all depends on how you are set up and what you want subconsciously.

If you want a hot girlfriend to impress your friends with and have a relationship. If that your will then that will not work. If you want a harem and its your will, you will have it.

IT all depends on what you want deep down inside...

Mark

(04-20-2011 01:23 PM)pros80 Wrote:  Maybee Entropy has experienced some of this. I've seen various PUA gurus trying to preach the whole go out and get girls to like you and you can get laid by 5 different women in rotation and they can all know about each other and everyone can live in peace and harmony.

But thats obviously not the case if you pursue this route. Some girls will start drama after they find out and go crazy on you. Some will dump you right away after they find out your seeing other girls. Some will go crazy and come knocking on your door the next week.

Also in social circles its not possible to get laid by several women without drama and some girls hating on you. Some of the ones that hate on you will end up wanting to hook up later. So if you are going to get laid in social circle situations you gotta be able to deal with drama and haters including women and some guys.

Many of these PUA social circle products market ways to get laid by women in social circles and live in one big happy harmony. pff yea right... Social circles by nature are great, but people get off on the drama in them.