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Pickup selection...
Howdy all -

One hurdle I'm facing right now is that I tend to approach only women who are 1) alone (not with friends) 2) in distant proximity from the rest of the public (so I won't be overheard).

I know this is extremely limiting and is preventing me from making a significant number of approaches. It's also time consuming to find the right scenario...

I'll need to work on breaking out of this.

Given past advice and reading, I assume I should be approaching as much as possible to get over my anxiety and fear of rejection.

An additional limiting belief holding me back relates to that I work in a business district close to where I do approaches - and the area is highly trafficked by women walking home from work. Some of these women likely work in my company.

My limiting belief is that I will approach them, get rejected, and that it will negatively impact my career (assuming I should need to work with them at some point).

I know this is my brain searching for reasons to not approach, and that in a perfect world I'd have absolutely no reservations about approaching anyone... Any thoughts here?

Other questions for you guys:
- Do you approach anyone, regardless of the above factors? Are there any times you won't approach?
- What about approaching a girl (young woman) who appears to be with her mom? I go out in a touristy area and this seems somewhat common...

Cheers!
Slim
09-02-2011 07:17 AM
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Pickup selection... - Slim - 09-02-2011 07:17 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - General G - 09-02-2011, 05:13 PM
RE: Pickup selection... - Slim - 09-02-2011, 11:10 PM
RE: Pickup selection... - General G - 09-03-2011, 02:30 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - Brian - 09-03-2011, 03:52 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - machiavelli - 09-04-2011, 02:26 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - Jon - 09-03-2011, 04:59 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - Slim - 09-03-2011, 06:05 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - Poet145x - 09-03-2011, 09:19 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - neon - 09-11-2011, 10:40 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - Slim - 09-13-2011, 03:50 AM
RE: Pickup selection... - neon - 09-13-2011, 04:42 PM

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