This is by the far the most interesting thread on this forum right now.

Couple of things I want to chip in with (and they may have already been said in different forms but I think they are hugely important).

Out of leauge girls: They are out your leauge. If you cant speak to them like normal people then they are. If you condition yourself (via overload of experience) then you will handle that fear of 'messing up' and be normal.

Volume of approaches: Its different for everyone but I think time is more important than volume. An approach during each day for 4 weeks is better than bursts of approaches on a Saturday night when your tipsy.

If your going to be outcome dependant just change your focus to the outcome being ticking the calendar every day when you approach. 2-3 months of daily approaches will change your head a lot. In a wonderful way. And... like poker... you have to play a hand to even be in for the chance of winning. You cant make money playing one perfect hand. Play some practice hands first and get a feel for the game. In my experience if you only want to date and have sex and relationships with decent girls (and not get hung up on banging club party girls every weekend) then thats the best course of action.

Oh by the way... your not learning anything on this forum you dont already know... until you do that first approach. Once thats done you have material to work with. :-)