I know you are a young guy but by any chance you have any advice for older guys interested in youg girls?

Make sure she's over the age of consent.

Don't talk about your dentures, she is not interested.

Telling her to hold your cane is not a good compliance test.

Looks like someone wants to get the most posts by spamming one liners?



Leo, when you say young, what do you mean by young? 16? 18? 21? 25? Big differences between those ages. I'm a pretty young guy (so you can take everything I say with a grain of salt) but I'd say that most young girls are not interested in much older guys, and some girls have told me they like a guy at least 10 years older, and a small percentage would be open to even bigger age differences. So the first question is: where are you most likely to find girls that are interested in older men? Second, once you've found them, what will attract those girls? My guess is to specialize in what makes older guys special, like have a calm, strong, dominant frame, be experienced in life, travel, sex, etc. Wouldn't hurt if you have money.

Have you ever tried salsa dancing? The other week I was at a club, and unbeknownst to me and my friends, there was a salsa night there. There were men of all ages, and dance partners were switched every song. It seemed like women accepted pretty much any request from men for a dance. I saw some of the hottest women there I've seen in real life. Salsa dancing also seems to be a way to make a strong connection quick, because it's really close and passionate. I'm thinking about taking lessons myself! You might be able to meet women that way. Even if you don't, it's awesome.

Looks like someone is feigning interest in a topic to get the most posts by responding to someone who is posting low content threads also to get the most posts? He hasn't specified his age or his situation. Old man's game is no different than any other game. Believing you can't pickup girls because you're too old, too short, too poor, too ugly or too short is a confidence issue. Let's not contaminate this board with regurgitated information shall we?

edit: Salsa might be too fast for someone with arthritis. I would favor a slower activity, like bingo night.

I could use the help too with younger women. I am in my early 40's and I need help with say women 28-40. Lately I have noticed that women in their 30's are looking for younger men. Look at match.com or even when you go out to bars, they are either hanging with younger studs or posting on their profiles say 25-30 age range they are looking for when they are 35.

Its kind of discouraging. Anyone have any insights?

(04-08-2011 08:34 PM)hiphoppotamus Wrote:  Looks like someone is feigning interest in a topic to get the most posts by responding to someone who is posting low content threads also to get the most posts? He hasn't specified his age or his situation. Old man's game is no different than any other game. Believing you can't pickup girls because you're too old, too short, too poor, too ugly or too short is a confidence issue. Let's not contaminate this board with regurgitated information shall we?

edit: Salsa might be too fast for someone with arthritis. I would favor a slower activity, like bingo night.

Sorry, didn't mean to be a dick, but it definitely looked like it. And I do not expect to have the most posts whenever the contest is over, I'm hoping to learn here.

I should probably shut my mouth on this topic, as I have no experience in it (edit: I just read the forum rules. It's against the rules to post about stuff where you have no experience. I wouldn't mind if these posts get deleted.). I was just using logic and my knowledge of what girls my age say and think, since those are probably the girls that OP is interested in.

Believing you can't pick up girls at all because you're too old is a confidence issue. But that doesn't mean that older guys can pick up any girl. Most girls in their late teens and early twenties will simply not consider doing anything with a man who is at least twice their age. You have to acknowledge that fact, and work with it.

(04-09-2011 02:48 AM)Philip Wrote:  

(04-08-2011 08:34 PM)hiphoppotamus Wrote:  Looks like someone is feigning interest in a topic to get the most posts by responding to someone who is posting low content threads also to get the most posts? He hasn't specified his age or his situation. Old man's game is no different than any other game. Believing you can't pickup girls because you're too old, too short, too poor, too ugly or too short is a confidence issue. Let's not contaminate this board with regurgitated information shall we?

edit: Salsa might be too fast for someone with arthritis. I would favor a slower activity, like bingo night.

Sorry, didn't mean to be a dick, but it definitely looked like it. And I do not expect to have the most posts whenever the contest is over, I'm hoping to learn here.

I should probably shut my mouth on this topic, as I have no experience in it (edit: I just read the forum rules. It's against the rules to post about stuff where you have no experience. I wouldn't mind if these posts get deleted.). I was just using logic and my knowledge of what girls my age say and think, since those are probably the girls that OP is interested in.

Believing you can't pick up girls at all because you're too old is a confidence issue. But that doesn't mean that older guys can pick up any girl. Most girls in their late teens and early twenties will simply not consider doing anything with a man who is at least twice their age. You have to acknowledge that fact, and work with it.

Well its a confidence issue if you do not try. I have tried ALOT. So for me its not a confidence issue and to be honest I am sick and tired of every guy using the confidence issue thing as some kind of penicillin that can cure every cold and cancer. Its not. Believe me if you have truly lived life, its not. If a guy is trying, its not confidence per say, its technique or reality I would think. Its like, what if you have a product to sell and you have tried advertising, PR, sales people and every avenue but you cannot sell the product. You have total confidence in your product but you cannot sell it. Its not a confidence issue, its a problem that needs some wisdom and technique help.

I have been sold a bunch of goods by other products (not Mark's) that tell you "oh younger women lover older men." Well I am around alot of younger women with work and play and I do not see that at all. Never have. Hence my questions...

So in earnest can any body help? What do I do? I am very attracted to them and keep myself in good shape and look young but when the age thing is brought up I have trouble - real trouble not "confidence" trouble.

Sorry to be longwinded, but I need the help. So anybody have anything that can help?

Obviously I have no experience with this, but I have a good friend who is 51 and regularly dates women in their 30's and late 20's. What I've gathered from observing him and talking to him is:

- You need to look, act and feel as young as possible.
- Social circle situations seem to be the only route that's consistently viable. Cold approach allows young girls to disqualify you without knowing you way too easily.
- Women are going to be polarized when you hit on them. Your rejections will be worse, but the girls who are intrigued will be more intrigued than say a guy who's 28 hitting on them. So expect much wider variance and lower overall success.
- Don't tell her your age until AFTER you've had sex with her. Keep her guessing. The lower she guesses, the more she's attracted to you.

Hope that helps a little.