06-19-2011, 06:45 PM
I'm having some trouble with younger girls. Mostly, it so happens that the friends don't want me talking to the girl. This is so, even if the girl I like is really attracted. Often times, the girl is not able to step up to her friend and tell her that she likes me.
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Examples:
The girl was engaged. She never told me. She was enjoying the seductive vibe. Her friend came and let me know in no uncertain terms that I should leave because the girl is engaged.
The girl was enjoying the interaction. Her friend came and wanted me to leave. I could tell from the target girls' facial expressions that she wants me to stay. Eventually, she said, she'll come and find me.
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How do I deal with this better? It seems like younger girls have this herd mentality. They also seem unsure of what they want. It almost seems to me like the effort/result ratio with younger girls is just not worth it.
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Examples:
The girl was engaged. She never told me. She was enjoying the seductive vibe. Her friend came and let me know in no uncertain terms that I should leave because the girl is engaged.
The girl was enjoying the interaction. Her friend came and wanted me to leave. I could tell from the target girls' facial expressions that she wants me to stay. Eventually, she said, she'll come and find me.
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How do I deal with this better? It seems like younger girls have this herd mentality. They also seem unsure of what they want. It almost seems to me like the effort/result ratio with younger girls is just not worth it.