The old PU theory breaks the Last Minute Resistance with a freezout, meaning that you are not getting pissed or making a drama, but "just" destroying the comfortable atmosphere (switching off the music, blowing off the candles and turning on the lights) and paying attention to sth. else (e.g. reading emails ). THe goal is, to make her feel uncomfortable with the situation she created and to make her try to make up for her Last Minute Resistence.
I always found this technique very manipulative and not convincing, since every mature girl will analyze your behaviour as unmature bitching around. Besides, Mark wrote somewhere that this is one of most wrong PU techniques.
So what is actually the right way to deal with Last Minute Resistence?
You should never get LMR. For all intents and purposes it shouldn't even exist. If you get it at all, it means you did something wrong.
I've got an LR coming up next week (first in a long time) that talks about this.
Ok, but right now it happens from time to time unfortunately. I guess the best way is just to react normally like you don´t care and try it later again one or 2 times.
(06-05-2011 10:01 PM)Mark Wrote: [ -> ]I've got an LR coming up next week (first in a long time) that talks about this.
no homo ; )
I've tried this a couple of times in the past.
Ex. 1: I was fooling around with a girl and whenever things would escalate, she would say, 'Woah, easy there Dave. Let's not get too excited now' and push me away. So I'd freeze her out, but then we'd start going at it again and repeat the process. Very frustrating and no noticeable success. I later realized that if I just got more agressive and kept going when she pushed me away, she got more turned on and allowed me to break through the LMR. However, this obviously depends on the situation.. you don't want to go raping anyone lol.
Ex. 2: Was at a girl's place while she was fighting with her boyfriend. (He wasn't there). We hung out til about 3 a.m. when he started drunk dialing her. She was pissed and went to bed, leaving me on the couch. I went into her room to 'talk' to her and she suggested I come and cuddle. So we cuddled, but when I started running my hands across her stomach she gave me the old, 'But Davey..my boyfriend (blah blah blah)' so I froze her out. Started up again a few minutes later. This time she said, 'You're giving me goosebumps. I only get goosebumps when I'm scared or turned on.' So I said 'Oh, sorry for scaring you' (
) She replied 'I'm not scared..' So I flipped her over, started kissing her and away we went. Success.
That's awesome Davey, next step is overcoming your own LMR.
(06-08-2011 09:32 AM)Mark Wrote: [ -> ]That's awesome Davey, next step is overcoming your own LMR.
ROFL. True.
Davey has higher LMR than 90 percent of girls lol
Hahahaha!
that brings me to an idea: which tactics are ur girls using to overcome your LMR?
its really interesting me. I think though that they are not experienced with LMR and therefore act kinda desparate/pissed.
So I am reading 4 Elements of Game by Rob Judge and Zack Bauer now. Didnt finish it yet, but man, this the best PU ebook I have read! They say, that The best way to overcome LMR is by respecting that she is not comfortable, but if she is still with you and not went home, to escalate further without pushing too hard. It's basicly the same what Mark did in his last LR (actually he was not dealing but preventing LMR, since he took off the pressure of her) by saying that he wants to fool around with her and she should say when to stop.
(06-11-2011 12:41 AM)8_ball Wrote: [ -> ]Hahahaha!
that brings me to an idea: which tactics are ur girls using to overcome your LMR?
its really interesting me. I think though that they are not experienced with LMR and therefore act kinda desparate/pissed.
That's actually a good question dude. Now I have to think about this. In highschool, the majority of girls understood and respected it. One of them (she was a sex addict)
literally tried to shove my gentleman sausage into her lady garden several times, and then wrapped her arms around my leg while I dragged her across the floor and BEGGED me to fuck her. She was kinda nuts.
The girl who I finally lost my virginity to, I dated for a year and a half and made sure I was good and in love with her before we had sex. She was totally understanding through the whole process. She's also the one who got away *sigh
In college, girls have been much less understanding. There was a girl who I was FWB with tell me that unless I was gonna fuck her, not to bother coming over anymore. When I bring girls home from the club, they are usually expecting to get fucked and throw a fit when I don't sleep with them, but I usually go down on them for a while (I've got a tonne of practice at that by now LOL) and that tends to satisfied them. (There is a running joke in my group of friends about me going down on every girl lol -.-)
Usually though, girls tell me not to tease them, as I tend to be a huge tease. Getting completely naked and dry fucking but not actually penetrating the garden gates. They don't like that very much lol. Yeah, I'm a jerk
