05-18-2011, 05:39 AM
(05-18-2011 05:14 AM)Mark Wrote: [ -> ]What I find funny is he's still operating in the paradigm of what "works" and what doesn't "work" on a girl like this. It's not about what works... it's about recognizing that sex with a dumb racist cunt is probably not worth compromising your own values, no matter how hot she is...
The irony of course, is the second that you do tell a girl like this that she's a dumb racist cunt, 9 times out of 10 she ends up wanting to fuck you even more. But hey... I guess I'm just a keyboard jockey.
I was also very surprised when he turned the convo in theory and praxis, because I never mentioned something about technics, but just that he forget his dignity in this case. So either he is not thinking about things like that or he just didn´t want to understand me.
Hahaha. Yes, you have first to fieldtest that, because until then it´s just a "theoretical after school special"
(05-18-2011 05:18 AM)equilibrium Wrote: [ -> ](05-18-2011 04:15 AM)8_ball Wrote: [ -> ]Please, this has nothing to do with KJing or mental masturbation. This about having your values and morals holding to them, even if you want get laid. You said yourself, that you thought: "White girl, please", meaning that you know she is talking completly racist bullshit. Still you escalated. By doing this you set imo the girl above your values (besides being incongruent). Yes, you got laid. But have you been honest to yourself? Imo, no."
Since he didn't specify or define his own values, I'm not sure that he violated them.
Lots of people would place "dispute people who say racist things about your heritage" above "get laid" in their hierarchy of values. I consider that reasonable. However, JT never claimed that his values were in this order. Maybe getting laid matters more to him than telling off a girl for being racist.
Not saying he's right or wrong here - just that I didn't see him going against his own value system.
How much of a failed, desparate human being can you be, if getting laid is more important to you then to be not disciminated against?
Like I said, I would have EXCUSED his lay if he was a newbie who usually don´t get laid at all. It would have been still weak, but I would have excused it. But this guy is famous dating coach, getting laid regurarly (hopefully).
Btw, sex is not a valuembut a human instict. Values are something like morals, higher "behaviour guidelines" like respect, honesty and so on. They are usually always above human instincts.