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@GeeCee
When you say flake, do you mean women who agreed to a date and never showed up, or numbers that went nowhere?

Just wondering if anyone here has experience with Soul's (that guy from LoveSystems) approach to daygame and his book on it?

Cheers

A good way to eliminate the fake number problem is to have her text you.

Girls these days ALWAYS have their cell phone within reach. When getting her number, I just have her pull it out and text me. Then my phone vibrates and I know it's her.

Mark, how important are the inner state (the vibe) for daygame? If it is important how to etablish this state?

It's important to be as relaxed and casual as possible.

You establish it by not being a nervous wreck or feeling like you have to prove something.

ok. Thank you. What about being playful and funny. Is it also good?

My Frame is this:

Iam a "playful Super-Confidence(relaxed,casual) Man. I approach hot girls for fun".

That would fall under "trying to prove something."

Day game is all casual small talk and then a number. Just be friendly and normal.

If this are so easy, how is this possible that I did 300 Direct Street Approaches and had just 5 Dates?

And yes, i try always to nummber or facebook close.

I agree with Freedomone here.

I've done about 200-220 now, and gotten one girl on a date so far. And that girl was a warm approach, not cold, since she smiled at me first. And that was about 100 approaches ago.

Today was yet another disaster.

It gets really frustrating to be told 'how much easier' it is to approach and get dates with girls during the day, and then the numbers don't line up at all with that notion. Just by sheer volume, I should've gotten at least 1 date out of all these cold approaches. Even if 'something's off' about my mechanics or whatever, it just doesn't seem possible for my results to be this absolutely abysmal. At this point, it'd be nice to at least get a single reply to my texts and calls. You said somewhere in one of these threads that 'I shouldn't be getting flakes from daygame', but that's all, I get. Even when I get a great response off the opener, nothing comes of it.

My body language and tonality isn't any different than it is during nightgame and my results and responses are consistently better there.

I'm just saying, I think the 'daygame is easy, just be casual' mantra isn't really the case.

I´m totally with you on this, Kickbomber. I have the same problem. The funny thing is, I haven´t got any AA in the daytime and I feel much more comfortable doing streetgame- than nightgame-approaches. Still, it doesn´t really work. Right now, I´m looking into Krausers daygame model, because when I simply go direct, all I get is the boyfriend objection. I seriously hope I will get something out of it.