Hello forum. I have read the article on this site about escalating and I was wondering if anybody had anything to add to it. Sometimes I feel as if the gap between two actions on the list seems too wide. I'm not one for in-depth analysis on when and how to touch her; I'm really looking for a few pointers.
What mindset do you guys feel is most helpful in escalating further and further? I feel something along the lines of losing myself in love's lascivious, bellowing embrace. Real sappy I know, but hey Don Juan is like the pinnacle of what I yearn for in terms of romance. Feels right. Any ideas?
Whats the article your referring to? Can you link to it?
My thoughts on escalation:
1 - Do it because you like her not because she gave you some sort of signal.
2 - It creates attraction so do it anyway. Ive found girls to be more interested in me after Ive escalated when before they were on the fence.
3 - Its your job as a man to do it. She wont in most cases.
4 - Do it quickly. SOI is a good start. "Hey I think thats sexy" in reference to something she said about herself.
5 - Lay the mitts on her. Touching her lightly early on creates a closeness and I consider it escalation although it doesn't have to be.
6 - Grow a set and talk about sex early on in the conversation.
7 - Be cheeky but not offensive. She'll think its sexy that you dont treat her like a wittle special snowflake.
In my humble opinion the mindset you refer to comes after you do all these things consciously. Dont worry about mindset too much. Focus on one or two of the above and your laughing.
Aim to be stopped
It´s the 50% rule
Too much is always better than too few ( too less?)
Listen to Lycan. He just summed it up in one line when I couldnt.
Do you ever touch a girl while doing day game? Except for handshakes.
(04-13-2011 01:25 AM)Mark Wrote: [ -> ]No. Never.
Hmm I'm not a big day game guy (that's about to change soon) but have you seen any of Soul's (Love Systems) videos? He touches a decent bit and it seems to work well for him.
Check out this video:
http://www.youtube.com/user/LoveSystems#...RTSbvM8tBs
Plenty of touching and if those girls aren't really into him then I'm on the wrong track
I remember 60 years of challenge always saying something along the lines of "Escalation is attractive. The point of the first escalation is not to go good or bad, but to show her that you're confident and not afraid to make a move."
Homework (for night game): If a girl initially reacts positively to you, try to get rejected by escalating too fast and being too pushy. (You'll be surprised how far you can take it if you're just persistent enough.)