The Abundance Mentality

When it comes to adopting the proper mindsets and mentalities to pick up women successfully, there may not be any as important as the abundance mentality.

The abundance mentality is practically the very definition of an attractive man. And the sooner you start incorporating it into your own thinking, the sooner you’ll start adopting attractive behaviors.

The abundance mentality is this: when you recognize that no matter what the situation is, there are an infinite amount of opportunities with women out there. As a result, he will act unreserved, assertive and more confidently.

The opposite of . . . → Read More: The Abundance Mentality

Stop Doing Shit You Hate

This video is of a short seminar given by an internet entrepreneur to other internet entrepreneurs. Although I believe it falls more under the category of “general life advice” and is easily translatable to pickup.

Although his advice is fairly generic, I believe it’s important. It’s one of those “this is water” type things where it’s constantly under our nose (be passionate about what you do; have patience to reach your goals) that we often forget it.

It’s inspired some thoughts from me, as it particularly relates to some life changes I’ve been making and also a student . . . → Read More: Stop Doing Shit You Hate

Lame American Girls

Here’s some bored-Friday-at-work entertainment for you. I’m so used to South American women at this point, and I’m wondering if I may be in trouble when I get back to the States. South American girls will be very lukewarm to you in the first 30 minutes to an hour. But once they decide they like you and they want to sleep with you, they’re so on board, it’s almost creepy. No resistance, super affectionate, very warm, even after the sex they call you all the time and want to see you all the time. It’s nice in a lot . . . → Read More: Lame American Girls

Meeting Women — Day Time versus Night Time

This question has been coming up a lot lately, both with students and at seminars. And it’s the question of environment. Typically, the guy will say one of the following:

“I usually do night game at clubs, but during the day a lot of women blow me out or flake on me.” “I typically do day game, and when I go out at night girls ignore me or seem to find me boring.”

This is a REALLY common problem, and the reason is that the way you game changes based on WHERE you are meeting her. What usually happens . . . → Read More: Meeting Women — Day Time versus Night Time

New Year’s Eve Tips

Today is New Year’s Eve, and like Halloween, Valentine’s Day and (to a lesser extent) the 4th of July, it’s a big party holiday. In fact, it’s probably THE big party holiday. But unlike those holidays, it’s very easy to screw up New Year’s Eve. In fact, NYE can be a complete bust if you don’t know what you’re doing or make a couple wrong decisions. Here are a three quick and practical New Year’s Eve tips to have a great night that I’ve learned over the years.

1. Wherever you decide to go, get there EARLY. VERY EARLY. . . . → Read More: New Year’s Eve Tips

Using the Correct Head

Had a strange and interesting experience earlier this week in New York.

An old acquaintance from high school got in touch with me. She is doing a Ph.D program there at a very prestigious program, was new in town there and saw I was in town on Facebook and asked if I wanted to get together for a drink or something. I had been working my ass off for like three days straight, so I said sure, why not?

This girl was never attractive in high school (you can probably already see where this is going). She was the . . . → Read More: Using the Correct Head

Explore Your Hobbies

Dancing is an amazing way to meet women

This is another preview of my upcoming College Game/Social Circle Game product coming out in a couple weeks. If you like it and are interested in it, you can check it out here.

Explore Your Hobbies

The best part about exploring your hobbies is that you’re automatically screening women out for the ones that have similar interests as you do.

Also, being regularly active in your hobbies allows you more opportunities to do what I call “warm approaches.”

First, what I mean be “warm approaches” is approaching people at events . . . → Read More: Explore Your Hobbies

Sex in the Workplace

This is a follow up to Sunday’s Conversation Demolition. A reader had a great question about gaming girls at work and how having a reputation as a player can affect your career:

Does developing a “reputation” in the office seem to hurt your ability to rise in the company? Picking up the women all aside. I would think maybe, especially in this day and age where women have more power in the workplace. if they are showing disdain on the surface, even if they really want your penis, that could still hurt you. But maybe not.

To be . . . → Read More: Sex in the Workplace

How to Pick Up Girls at Parties

Parties are the perfect way to meet women. You have everything working for you: people are there to have fun and meet other people, everyone is within two degrees of separation (i.e., everyone knows someone who knows you), and people are usually drinking and being adventurous.

But still, the the fundamentals of gaming girls still hold up.

Approaching becomes easier. It’s a much more comfortable environment — women feel less threatened — and you always have instant conversation since you always have something in common with whoever you’re talking to. Just ask them who they know or how they . . . → Read More: How to Pick Up Girls at Parties

Wing Man of the Year

I hereby publically nominate myself Wingman of the Year for my performance last night, taming that wilderbeast of a woman while my friend Ben fucked her friend. I thought it was bad enough when he made me dance with her for 10 minutes at the club. But no, he decided to pull, and that Yeti of a woman came in tow.

Even when she invited herself into my room and sat on my bed, I talked and talked my way through the biggest time-wasting conversation of my life. When she pushed me down, straddled me with her massive thighs . . . → Read More: Wing Man of the Year